Am i just being hormonal?

Question

ok so im 29 weeks pregnant. my fiance likes to spend time with his friends and i let him because i know once the baby gets here things are going to change BUT i hate when he goes to parties because im stuck falling asleep rubbing my own belly and holding myself.. plus i just think its mean to leave your pregnant girlfriend at night to go party. anywho, the other day his friend invited him to some party .. we had spent the whole day together shopping and eating then we came home and he got dressed for the party. hes dressed but just sitting there his mind looking like its far away.. then all of a sudden he says baby gets dressed, i rather spend time with u.. i figured he felt bad for leaving me knowing i cant go anywhere that late being pregnant and all... the next day his friend is over and im like james has been extra nice to me lately ... his friend says i know and i dont like him bein nice to u... im like what!? hes like yea because he blows me off.. like the other day when he didnt come to the party with me. in my head im like this stupid a$shole! then that same night his friend was still there and his friend asks him to come somewhere else with him and now tonight hes trying to get him to go to some other party with him. this guy is really working my nerves.. and im starting not to like him.. it seems like hes jealous and he always wants to take my baby away from me! or am i just being pregnant and mean? any other ladies annoyed with their mates friend or friends?

Answer 1

Well i think you reacting normal..I would be upset as well..His friend should understand that your boyfriend is going to be a father soon he doesn't need to be leaving you at home to party..Maybe once in awhile type deal but not often at all..and they can do other things then go to a party..You should tell your boyfriend the way you feel..If not tonight then next time you guys are hanging out and stuff...good luck

Answer 2

I know EXACTLY how you feel. I HATE it when my husband goes out with his friend while I'm stuck at home with our toddler and very pregnant. It seems so mean, lol. Really though I don't mind my hubby hanging out with his buddies but to me going out partying isn't very appropriate especially when your girlfriend/fiance/wife is at home pregnant with their baby all by herself. My husbands best friend wanting him to go clubbing tomorrow night with him and I put my foot down about it. Something about my s**y husaband going to a club with all these single girls while his very pregnant wife sits at home just wasn't right. He agreed and instead we got a babysitter for our toddler and were going out on a date, hehe.  

Answer 3

OMG, I am going thur the same problems right now. Your man's guys friends are always the worse! There is nothing wrong with you, they just feel like since u got knocked up wit your boyfriend baby its taking up male time. Well, once a child in involved friends get cut short anyhow. So let him have his fun but set rules cause they can get out of hand. Good luck

Answer 4

no it seems like his friend knows what is going to happen after the baby is born and thinks you are taking him away from him. it is like a jealous girlfriend but manly. my husband used to go out but after the baby was born he has became a home daddy. he goes out about once a month. his bestfriend is very understanding and they talk on the phone like girls do. if one cant get a hold of the other finally when they do it is a big deal. but i email my best friend a couple times a week. once you do have kids it is about family not parting and friends do notice a change but you should be happy that you have a man that will blow off a party to spend it with you.

Answer 5

honey i feel you 110 % lol you were fair you gave him space but now this freind or him is trying to take advantage me and my fiance have a child together and we were fairly young parents and when iwas pregnant i felt the same way i was home and he was out? wtf but hopefully it will stop it does take time for them to realize that their lives do stop.. but it will be okay yes you are hormonal so things are worse but to be honest i wouldnt let that friend in my house after that remarkk! good luck girl and remeber men need their space but dont give em to much me and my man have an agreement twice a week he plays cards with his friends and twice a week i can have a day to myself! .goodluck again!

Answer 6

i got very emotional when i was pregnant and my boyfriend wanted to go hang out with anyone, i would just get so heartbroken....and when we first met we would party and get messed up and once i found out i was pregnant i stopped and i was worried he wouldn't want to stop, but luckily he was there while through all my suffering...i;d have to say the pregnancy hormones played a huge part in some of my crazy mood swings.....but now it's better.  

Answer 7

He needs to behave. Love is not in the words. It's in the action. It's seen and felt clearly.

Answer 8

I think it's a bit of both. You want him to stay home because you have to but the reality is that he has a life too. You just need to compromise, both of you.

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Answer 9

You definitely have a reason to be mad. When my husband and I were not married yet, and I was very pregnant, it seemed like all he wanted to do at night was hang out with his friends. We were VERY young and our relationship was still a bit rocky. He would want to go out with all of his friends who were obviously single and childless. That is until his best friend found out that they were expecting 2 months after us. lol. Anyway, all you can do is give him the space he needs, but make absolutely sure that you communicate any further issues with him now. If you don't, then you may let the problem grow and grow and then you will end up blowing up at him. I know, I've been there! I would also set limits with how many times per week that he goes out and leaves you at home. Say something like, "Tonight I was going to cook for us, and then just kind of snuggle up on the couch and watch a movie" That way, you are letting him know that you want to spend time with him too, and that you already made plans with him. Hopefully this will let him know how important he is to you since he may just be feeling isolated because your pregnant and he may be a little scared to give up the parties and clubs. Good luck, and I'm sure he will grow up soon!  

Answer 10

FCK THAT DOUCHE BAG! (his friend) he needs to understand that you are number one! that's your man... and your having HIS baby! man, that would p**s me off... no i don't think you are being hormonal... you tell your man to tell his buddie that you come first... not him... and that he never will....  

Answer 11

Honestly, pregnant or not you have a reason to be mad. I'm proud of your boyfriend for choosing to spend time with you especially when you're pregnant and I would be super pissed if my boyfriend's friend said those things to me or about me. My boyfriend had friends like that but he stopped going to parties and hanging out with them because of their attitudes towards me. Talk to your boyfriend about it! Let him know it upsets you, because you don't deserve that.