Am i leaving my friend out? what should i do?

Question

so after my results next week my parents are going down to this city thats about 4 hours away for the weekend, they said i could come and bring a friend or at least two friends! right so i hav 3 main friends. and this one girl who is supposed to be my "best friend" even though i can barely stand her for more than a day, she thinks im her best friend too, and people always think of us as best friends and i'm always really nice to her and everything but i find her really annoying. she used to put me down alot years ago, and i think im sort of holding a grudge against her. but i now shes insecure and stuff, so now i just dont want to ditch her cause she doesnt have any other friends. but i have 2 other friends and us four usually hang out together! can i take the other two? or would that be really mean. the other two are really nice and i think i'd have so much more fun with them, cause the other is more boring and stuff. should i just not go? there's meant to be this concert on so i really want to go. but maybe i shouldn't if its going to me people feel left out. but even if i could bring three i still wouldnt want her to come, but id still probably take her.. i suppose. what should i do? who should i choose?

Answer 1

with any luck she wouldn't be available;otherwise come clean and tell

her you just have to let her go; you never got over her meanness to you

Answer 2

You should be honest with her,if you find her annoying,boring,insecure and you think you may be holding a grudge against her,for how she treated you in the past,politely tell her how you feel.If you are only being nice to her out of pity,then that's not a best friend or even a friend.Her insecurity , etc.is something she has to work on in order to fix the problem.I don't think she would like the idea of a mercy friendship,if you don't  like her company,tell her,in the long run she will appreciate your honesty.

I think you should invite your other 2 friends and have fun,if your parents won't allow you to invite 3 people .

Answer 3

i think u should take the other girls since ur best friend is so imature.u should have fun dont let no one hold u back from having fun.well hope i helped

Answer 4

I think if you took just one of the other girls it'd probably be ok, but

to take both of them and not the other would seem hurtful; especially if you haven't had a conversation with this other girl about your feelings.

That's a tough one.  You don't want to hurt her feelings, but you don't want to be with her either.  But ultimately, isn't it more unkind to let her think something that isn't true?

Answer 5

i know how you feel. if your one friend will keep you from having a good time do not invite her! but you do what you want you have several options and it for you to decide not us! hope this helps!!! :]