Am i lucky to have a brother like him?

Question

OK so im 15 years old and have a 27 year old brother (Nick) that is amazing i think!

I can tell him anything (periods, guys, school, life anything!)

When he's home to visit with his girlfriend we, wrestle, watch movies together, hang out etc...

I have stayed at their house 4 times for 1-2weeks at a time and its fun!

I don't feel awkward around him or anything!

I call him once a week and always talk on msn!

I can trust him with anything no matter what it is!

My friend says im to close to him and shouldn't be because he's my brother! She says i shouldn't talk to him about some of the stuff we talk about!

When i've stayed with them i've needed to ask him to buy me tampons once cause i didn't bring any and his girlfriend wasn't home!

Well my friend also said that's not right to ask your brother for! Well what was i supposed to do?

So am i lucky to have him or what?

Thanks Nikki

Answer 1

your friend is probably jealous :)

your relationship with your brother is awesome..dont let others discourage you from thinking so.

i can relate im 12 years younger than my brother and also have 3 sisters older than him..all of us are really close :)

Answer 2

Aww that's so sweet and you're so lucky. Your friend doesn't know anything, she's wrong. You're just close to your brother, so you can talk to him about girl things. There's nothing wrong with being close to your sibling, nothing at all. Don't worry about that.

It's wonderful that you have him in your life. I'm kind of like that with my big cousin, but we're not as close as you are to him. Anyways you're incredibly lucky.

Answer 3

awww he seemss soo sweet.

i wish i had a brotherr likee himm, I've alwayss wantted an oldeerr brothher.

Answer 4

Your friend is wrong. A close relationship is good with your brother. As long as he's not doing anything wrong, than you're very very VERY lucky to have a brother like him :)

Answer 5

aww I think thats awesome. you are really lucky and there is nothing wrong with it. thats why i want a big brother =]

Answer 6

tht is one of the cutest n best relationships i have ever heard of....u guys sound cute.....U R UNDOUBTEDLY VERY VERY VERY LUCKY

Answer 7

Yes you and your brother have a very good relationship. Ignore your friend she is restricted by stupid TV show ideals. Putting you down about anything makes her feel better than you.

Answer 8

lucky 4 u it aint like that with my sisters i tell to get the h**l outta here

Answer 9

Your friend is jealous. You have a very good brother. I'm even jealous. He is like the older brother i've always wanted! hah.  

Answer 10

wow your not lucky... your blessed!!! many people wish they had siblings relationships like yours be grateful

Answer 11

very lucky. im lcky if i can make it up the stairs without my brother grabbing my legs to trip me

Answer 12

Yes you are lucky!

Answer 13

omg of course not and its so wrong of your Friend to judge you like that.  mostly relationships between siblings who have such age differences, are very close.

i am EXTREMELY close to my brother, just like that. and i do catch myself and wonder on my own.

its human nature and you guys would be naturally more close if you don't see each other often.

my brother lives in CA and i find myself in same situations.

trust me nothing is wrong with that.

Answer 14

i think your friend is wrong! im 14 and my brother jonathan is 21. he's in college so he's not home alot either. me and him are really really close like you and your brother. i know he'd never do anything to hurt me. he's always there to talk to me no matter what time it is. and if he cant talk cuz he's in class or something he always calls me back.

i got myself grounded last nite for a month and even though im not supposed to be on the phone, he's the first person i called after i got in trouble.he talked to me, told me what i did was wrong, told me that he loves me and to get the heck off the phone so i dont get caught. of course im sure my parents wouldnt be mad if the knew it was my brother i was talking to but still...he's always looking out for me. i love him very much and he is my best friend. when he's home we're inseperable. we both play hockey and have for years. he plays college hockey in boston and when he's home we spend every day at the rink and we help each other out. i wish everyone had an amazing sibling like we do. we are lucky.

Answer 15

YEAH! I am so jealous of you, because I've always wanted an older sibling. I have a litter brother, and I'm the oldest, but I always just wanted someone to really look up to that I could trust, and that would look after me, and be my friend. I don't really have that. I just have this little boy who likes to practice wrestling moves on me (that hurt, when I'm not expecting it.) stands in front of the TV when I watch movies, and only wants to spend time with me to annoy me. I think it's cool how you can go to him for anything, and stay at his house. I'd love that, it sounds fun. I always wonder what life would be like if I had that. My mom had kids before me, but I was the first one to actually live, so I could of had older brothers! Your friend is jealous.

Answer 16

I think you are very lucky to have a brother like him...

If you have just one person in your life, male or female, that you can tell anything to, then you can count yourself blessed!

I don't see what the big deal is asking him to buy tampons, I lived with my dad as a teenager, and I had to ask him plenty of times to do embarrasing stuff like that, so what???

He's a good guy who is easy to relate to and you can let him know that he's gonna make a fantastic dad when the time comes!