Am i makin an *** of myself?

Question

ok I met this guy, he seems really nice but he doesnt talk much. Especially when he txts. i never no what to say. but i love hearing from him. he's taken me out for coffee n lunch n we spent the day at the beach the convo is always ok but no really great. i feel a crush but in ways i don't. why is he making the effort ? does he just want to be friends? i feel so stupid for having a crush cause he doesnt act like he's interested but then goes thru all this effort!! or am i reading too much into it? i try to really put myself out there but i get nothing back. shud i just take him as a friend?

Answer 1

from what you wrote, he sounds interested in you. i think you should stop doubting the relationship and let it blossom. you guys are probably just both shy, which is fine. you guys just need more time to feel 100% comfortable with each other.

Answer 2

If he goes out of his way to do small things, or anything for you but then downplays it, it is possible he is interested. He may just not have the courage to speak up. Say something, because if neither of you do I can guarantee nothing is going to happen.

Answer 3

take the reins a bit... sometimes we guys dont have the balls to try and take it a little further, so its left up to u. trust me, hes not tryin to be just friends though

Answer 4

i reckon he likes you. but he sounds shy, so his probably doing his best at trying to make a move or something, give it time, im sure he likes you and just isn't sure when to make a move.

Answer 5

this guy is shy. he is afraid of rejection. be the first to kiss him and tell him you like or love him! keep doing this this for him and you guys will fall in love!

Answer 6

he likes you but just really shy about it he'll come around trust me

Answer 7

If he doesn't make a move soon, that's just what he will remain- a friend. Maybe he is too inexperienced and doesn't quite know when to make than transition,.... which is supposed to be sooner than later.... maybe you can make the move- if you are courageous enough... like hold hands.... and see how he reacts.

Answer 8

just go with the flow and eventually things will start falling into place.

maybe hes just nervous when he's around you. talk to him but don't get your hopes up cause you never know.