Am i normal plz help?

Question

ok well i have bin living in saudi arabia and over there wemen cover there bodies, and well when u study they seperate boys and girls, there is no dating and all those clubs and stuff, ANYWAYS now i came to canada and i make guy friends really quick, i want to have female friends too but i cannot make one cuz i dotn know how so can u help me and about the normal thing, i hate s*x and thinking about it, i also dont want to have it so am i normal, i am 16yrs old male, well i do m********e but sometimes. so whats goign on, i never kissed or hugged and well dont wanna have s*x, i dont even have a female friend, just guy friends so am i a loser. plz be nice

Answer 1

yes

Answer 2

OMG you are a wierdo.

16yr olds want 2 **** girls.

Yes you are a loser!!!

Answer 3

youre not a loser if you aren't comfortable with girls. I do hug but not kiss. it's uncomfortable for me to see kisses in the high school hallways. Good luck man. for whatever it is

Answer 4

yeah your normal. there is nothing wrong with having a different culture.

Answer 5

Of course your not a loser.  How could you know how to act around females.  I would suggest hanging with some nice Canadian males and observe.  Your previous life sounds oppressive.  Remember Canadian females will be different than Saudi arabian females in behaviour. Relax and be open minded.  

Answer 6

your a late bloomer or g*y....

Answer 7

You may be a little confused due to cultural differences that you have been exposed to, but I don't think you are abnormal.

At 16, you shouldn't "hate" s*x...and I am curious about your family?  Are they of Middle Eastern birth, culture  and male/female interactions?  That would explain a lot.  

Not everyone matures sexually at the same time, so don't get all excited about it.  There's plenty of time to resolve this matter.  You must have a school counselor.  Speak to him about this matter.

Give yourself time to adjust to a new way of living, looking, feeling, and thinking.  Given time and a little female attention, you will find them to be excellent companions.  

Learning how to approach them after your experience in a culture where woman lack the appreciation they have here, will require some readjustment.  Counseling would help you understand the problem better.  And, give you some peace of mind.

Relax.  

Answer 8

Well, if you find a girl attractive just try talking to her. If you don't want to have s*x that's ok, she won't feel pressured since you aren't asking her. If you m********e that's totally normal. Of course you'd make male friends easily since you are a male yourself.

Sometimes a girl likes it when a guy compliments her and walks away.  My friends do, they say they don't feel pressured. Maybe try that.

You seem like a nice guy to me so I'm sure you'll make friends easily!

Hope I helped!

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Answer 9

Sexual curiosity comes to all at different ages. you have been acclimatised to an environment that isn't about 'getting your end away'.

your not weird, just not ready. when the right person comes along you'll feel different.