Am i over reacting or what?

Question

YES i KNOW MY SPELLING ISNT RIGHT I JUST WANTED TO HURRY!!!

Well i think im over reacting to this problem and i would really like some edvice! :

i have a best friend and we're like sisters and everything has gone great.. but then ma cus moves over here n i try to be a good friend so i present her to my cuz and she like him.. but then she starts acting all wiered.. doin things just so my cuz can be wit here she doesnt even kno him all that good n she already "did" it wit him.. n she like taking his side more than mines knowing that i have always been there for here threw da good and BADS!!!!! when im a with my boyfriend i neva act wiered wit her i always act the same but wen she wit ma cuz she acts so diff.. and all he want is one thing from here wich he got n he playin her n she dont want to listen to me.. idk wat to do!!! i feel like im losing ma best friend were just not as close as we used to be in the past

Answer 1

either talk to your friend, if you did and she doesn't listen...then she never was a true friend. end the friendship

or talk to your cousin about it.

you're not over reacting

Answer 2

Well from the way you wrote it it doesn't seem like you are over reacting but more concern about your best friend. I would be to if I know my best friend is going out with a player. Unless your cuz isn't really one but you just making sound like it. But still if she and him are doing ok and he isn't hurting her in anyway just let them have some space. If your cuz is really a bad person and you know she would get hurt at the end you should try to make her realize it as best as you can.

Answer 3

NO IDEA WHAT YOU JUST SAID

I can't read when all you say is (ma) and (n) and (wiered) and (wit) and (cuz)

AHHHHHH  

Answer 4

i would be mad too. just tell her how you feel  

Answer 5

I had the same problem with my best friend. Her bf was a total A**hole and treated her like dirt. She did act weird around him and always took his side. She never seemed to have time for me when he was around.

I tried to worn her but you know it never works. Try pointing out his bad qualities in a subtle (which so did not work for my friend). But if she gets defense bad off right away. She will figure it out eventually.  It might take some time but be there for her when its over. And don't go all i told you so right away. Wait until you can joke about it first.

Answer 6

ohh...so sad..

well she's your bestfriend so you should tell her that you only want what's good for her and even if she'll get angry to you she will soon realize that you did all you can but she didn'y listen.

Answer 7

I quit reading because you can't spell..  Please learn how to read and write and then return to ask your question.  Thank you.

Answer 8

You are NOT over reacting this is a sticky situation. All you can really do is warn her and try to tell him to stop. If you could find any way to show her proof that would be the answer but all you can do is warn her and eventually once things die down she will realize how much you cared and that you tried to help.

Answer 9

Remind her again that, "Your my best friend and I don't want to see you hurt later. But I know my cousin, and he is seriously only trying to get in your pants. I really don't want to see you hurt, trust me, I feel like were growing apart."

If she doesn't listen to you after that, then let her go. She has to learn on her own what will happen. She'll be back one day to thank you for at least trying.