Am i overdoing it fr her?

Question

well...i have a gf in another city....her bday is in two dayz...i sent her a CD wid sumthing nice in it(a word doc)...on valentines day earlier this year..i made a card fr her...wid a lot of things in it...i asked her hw she liked it..n she said it ws too creative fr a guy!! i neva understood wat she meant...n last year...on her bday...i organised a surprise party fr her in hr home...well...n many more small things in d past year...bt she has neva done nething fr me....well...no probs wid dat...bt all i want to ask...is she d kind who dosent like all dis?? shud i stp doin more stuff fr her or continue?

Answer 1

First of all a cd with a word document? Point earner that one and if this girl is Filipina they like to be chased to a certain point but if you are smart mate you should work the situation to your favour and get her to chase you once in awhile. You would get much better results if you just txt her how she is, if she has eaten dinner or if she got home alright from time to time. Just to make it look like you care on the human leve. If you shower her with gifts and surprise parties she will most likely take it the other way and you don't want that. Its a culture thing for them well most of them anyway. I personally only give gifts on special occasions and when the time is right to do so. If you try to win their hearts with material things you aint going to get anywhere because most aren't like western girls who are very materialistic.

Just tone it down and on the human level play it cool and don't make it look like your buying her love with gifts and stuff like that.  

Answer 2

why don't you confront her yourself? ask her if she likes all the stuffs you're doing... I mean, have communication...  

Answer 3

I'll do anything for her for better and for worst 'cause I truly love my asawa. So, do not give up.

Answer 4

Don't do anything for her and she'll start chasing you around like a s*x-starved kitten.

Answer 5

Mr. Neva.... you're just trying too hard

Answer 6

I wished my bf did stuff like that for me, your one awesome man, but nope i do all the stuff for him being a woman...Why don't you ask her and find out why she just brushes you off w/how you've been doing romantic things for her?...You need to find out coz if she doesn't appreciate any of the special stuff you do for her then maybe she doesn't deserve you at all...She should be lucky coz not all men do all the lovey dovey stuff for their woman...Good luck guy