Am i overreacting about this?

Question

This guy has kept saying that he wants me,but I dunno..I'm not sure.He knows that I love him.Anyway,one night,we are all out (all friends).He comes up to me and says that he wants to meet me and wants a relationship.He weemed deadly sincere,just then a hen party passed by and this woman had a top with a really low back passed.A silence fell as he stared at her up and down.To break it I said it must be hard for men with all these lovely looking women in the bar, while there were no good looking men in the bar.He never looked at me,just dropped his head and made this fake laugh.I moved away and started to talk to another male friend, who also started acting odd and put his arms protectively around me while he stared over at the guy I love.The night ended and my friend left.Outside, the man I love came up to me and stared into my eyes and swore that he was there for me if I wanted him, did I want him? etc.I said that I did.He looked into my eyes and smiled and said that he would he be in touch,but he never rang.Since then he has sporadically told me that he wants me and that there is something between us etc. but am I overreacting by thinking that the fact he stared at another woman was a sign that he was not into me?

Answer 1

Men do tend to look at other women even if they are secure in their relationship. If the guy was really sincere wouldn't he show more interest than than just sporadically telling you he wants you and saying he will ring but then don't bother to ring? To me he looks very luke warm if you know what I mean.

Answer 2

thats unfair give him a chance he's a man for goodness sake!

Answer 3

Yeah...you're overreacting.

It's OK to look....no TOUCHING!!

Answer 4

well u are playing with his mind this is the 3rd question u have asked about this guy come on girl 1st off he tells u he loves u and wants u to say it back and u wont as u said in ya other questions but if u played with my mind id leave and all he wants u to tell him that u love him and in this question u say that he knows that u love him well actually no he dont know coz u never tell him

Answer 5

well you could be overreacting but you could also be 100%right it depends ok so i think that if he is going to stare at other girls while your going out then your right he definitly isnt into you as much as he says he is bc you should ask him that if when you guys where going out(if u do ) would he like it if you look at other guys all the time bc that is what he does to you right?