Am i overreacting????

Question

me and my boyfriend have been together for a month i know he has had alot of bootycalls well today i went 2 his house to be together and he received a phone call from a previous girl he used 2 c he told me he has told most of da girls dat he's in a relationship now but when he got dat phone call he told me dat she asked him why dont u call do u have a girlfriend now and he said sort of i told him hang up da phone while he put his cell right in front of me so she can hear me i got mad cuz i got jealous he said sort off so i told him well how would he like it if i said to an ex oh i sort of have a boyfriend he said he wouldnt like it he kissed me and that was it but was i wrong?? he said he answered da cell cause i was there but the number is programmed on his phone well he answered so she wont keep calling was i right to complain 2 him??

Answer 1

I might be wrong, but it sounds like you might be under 20, either way, men are going to do the dumbest c**p.  You were not wrong for getting mad.  I am glad you handled, it because if you didn't, he would think it was ok and continue to do it.  Now if he does it again, knowing it bothers you, it means he isn't worth it and you will know to leave him alone.

Answer 2

you shouldnt really think about how you reacted anymore he got youre point when he said he wouldnt like it either, so its fine,  

Answer 3

He was leaving his options open. Beware. It doesn't sound like he is the kind of guy that will stay in a committed relationship. At least right now. I would keep your guard up. Actually I think I would move on personally but that's just me. It sounds like he could be very deviant.

Answer 4

He is leaving his options open - but you have not been going out for very long, so give it another bit longer before you get too jealous of her.

I know someone whose b/f got a text 2 years into a new relationship, the number was still in the mobile/cellphone, this caused a great deal of  upset and could have ended the relationship.

Answer 5

The ONLY "right" (if that's how you want to term it) you had was. . .TO LEAVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!   YOU HAVE NO RIGHT WHATSOEVER to dictate to ANYONE how you are to be loved or treated!   YOU HAVE ONLY THE RIGHT TO DICTATE THAT FOR YOURSELF !!!!!!!!!!!  If you don't like the way someone is treating YOU or the RELATIONSHIP. . .THEN GET OUT OF IT !!!!!   YOU CAN'T, CAN'T, CAN'T change PEOPLE !!!!  The sooner you learn that. . . .the happier you're going to be.

THE ONLY TIME A MAN RESPECTS A WOMAN IS WHEN SHE RESPECTS HERSELF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!   IF HE'S SO-O-O-O-O-O DUMB AS TO ACT THE WAY HE WAS WHEN YOU WERE THERE. . . .THEN YOU'RE JUST AS DUMB FOR STAYING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now THINK about that. . . .and realize you're in a LOSER relationship!!!!!!!!!!!!   It's NOT tough to figure-out !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

Yes because he should have already told her so she wouldn't have called at all.

Answer 7

no

Answer 8

I'd be angry too, but you have to realize it's not like you're married (so why are you posting this in Marriage and Divorce??) or even that you've been together a long period of time.

You've only been together for a month, and you're going to have to expect for him to receive phone calls from his previous booty calls or relationships.

A month isn't that long for a man to be in a relationship -- trust me.  He's probably looking at this like you're "sort of" together, which is exactly why he told her that.  If I were you, I'd have "the talk" with him about how serious he wants this relationship to be right now.  Tell him that you'r enot comfortable with him talking to these women in that way anymore, and that he needs to tell them all he has a girlfriend and to stop calling.

Good luck.

Answer 9

No you did not over react, and yes he probably did do it to make you jealous. Some jealousy can make a person feel good, because it let's them know you care, but too much jealousy can be bad, real bad.

Answer 10

Your not overreacting at all.

I would be mad to if my husband were to say he kinda had a wife.

I'd go bizzerk & chase him down the road with a knife.