okay, this is it: my sister's boyfriend asked me to help him plan the engagement party. it was suppose to be a surprise because he was going to propose to her there. unfortunately, our dad blew it up by telling her the whole plan. despite all of that, he's still sticking to his plan. he is inviting 25 close friends and family. now here's the problem, he asked me to help and every suggestions that i give him he ignored. when i ask for the list of people that he is inviting, i notice most of the people he invited were people that were against their relationship and only 2 of my sisters friends, and four family members are invited. i got upset and said my sister want her 3 high school best friends to be there, he said NO, he dont care cuz hes the one paying for everything. so i was like im not going to an engagement party thats suppose to be with people that the future bride want there but is not and you refusing on adding her close friends. another problem, they have been planning their wedding for a year, they paid everything already. my grandmother and aunts are leaving for a 2weeks vacation, i asked him to postpone the whole thing so all of them can attend, he refuse. instead he is rushing into it. the whole thing is disorganized. when i asked my sister what she thought of the whole plan and the way he's planning everything she says after shes going to talk to him and tell him that she's going to have another engagemnt party, the way she wanted it. now, we could have avoided this by having her (since she know about the proposal) organized it or both of them. so i told my sister that im not going to the engagement party, she says if i dont go then i wont be one of her bridesmaids. am i taking this too far?
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