Am i right or whatt?

Question

Oh, im 15 by da way

Answer 1

It is hard to say not knowing how old you are.  It sounds like your parents are divorced??  Most divorce papers, meaning what the parents decided about the kids when they divorced, will set an age at which the child can decide for themselves what parent they will live with.  (This is of course assuming that there is no alternative reason why you are not living with your father, like is unsuitable for parenthood, which I am not assuming!)

Talk to your parents about this, ask you dad if there was an age set, ask him if he will go to court and fight for full custody.  If you want it! Be aggressive, but polite.

Answer 2

first of all that last comment shows' a lot about u'r character, u should never talk that way about u'r mom, secondly she must have a reason why she doesn't want u back, u need to prove her wrong. stop argueing and talk to her like a grown man if that's what u are. u have to prove yourself to her. she is u'r mom she raised you and made you who u are, give credit to her, and try to make her feel loved and to trust you again. if u'r not happy then think of her, is she happy? do you make her happy? do you ask about her and think what you put her through? change, then call her and prove things will be differnt. change first.

Answer 3

i'm sos sorry but it sounds to me like your mom want the child support if your dad really wants you to live with him then he'll have to go to court about it i don't know about were you live but here a child can choose which parent they want to live with at the age of 12 and the other parent can do nothing about IT so look into it

Answer 4

1) How old are you? (because if you are very young like middle school, you may just need to adjust or if you college or almost college, just wait)

2) Have you ever sat down and had a heart to heart about this with your mother?

Answer 5

Well, a 15 yr old should have a say in where he lives. If it's through the courts that you have to live w/ your mom, then I don't see why you and your Dad can't go to the court and say you want to make a change. Actually, it's much better if the courts can stay out of it, so maybe you and your Dad together can explain to you mom, that you want to make a change and live w/ Dad. Say that you need a male role model. You mom can't teach you how to become a man! And deep down she knows that -- so maybe she just needs time to adjust to the idea. Make sure to emphasize that you will remain in close contact w/ her and that it's not that you're trying to get away from her -- it's just that you need a male influence in your life. Good luck!  

Answer 6

Depending on your age.  Is your dad willing to fight for custody?  My step child did this to his mom wanting to live with dad (but in same state), he got in trouble at school, fighting all of the time, pretty much drove his mom bonkers and she finally gave up custody to his dad.  But i am not recommending that you do this.  Maybe she is afraid you would not be well taken cared of by your dad.  Maybe she just wants to collect child support, (that was the reason for my step-son's mom, she was so money hungry)  Looks like this will be a contest with who can break who.  I hope it works out for you.  Are you the only child?  that could be it also.

Answer 7

She probably says no becuase she wants to continue getting that child support check.

Answer 8

soo how old r u?anyway my mom is da same way but im only 17 so im just waitin until i go off 2 college n then freedom so in order 2 survive with my mom i tell myself this everydai "one day im gonna go off and then i wont c her again"