Am i right to be mad at my brother? (read on)

Question

I'll try to make this short, but so like im 13, and I babysit two twin brothers at my house, and they are five and as curios as ever. So i was washing the dishes after making them lunch, and here them saying like "oh cool" and other things. It turns out that they had walked in on my older brother (17) and his girlfriend "doing it". Now they told their mom, I got fired and she told other busy moms in our tiny city about how im a bad babysitter, so i wount have a job any time soon. His deffence is "you shouldnt of babysitted them this late at night when i was here. Am i right to be pissed off at him???

Answer 1

Your totaly right to be mad at them.  it wasnt your fault your brother was getting it on with his girlfriend.

Answer 2

Your getting paid to watch kids not wash dishes. Were you watching the 5 year olds? Apparently not since they got an eye full of a live p**n act. Your can be mad at your brother for doing the nasty when you had kids in the house but you've been fired for NOT doing your job. That's your fault, not his.

Answer 3

It is his room and they had no right entering his room.  For you being the babysitter it is your responsibility to watch them at all times and should have made sure that they did not entered that room no matter what.  You should have told your brother that you had to babysit and that if he was going to have company to lock his door.  As for his girlfriend I think that she is a tramp and has no respect for herself to be having s*x in him home while his sister is babysitting minor kids in the home. You should be mad and then you have no right because you alll are at fault and need to think twice how to be more responsible.

Answer 4

How late at night was it?

If I were you, I'd be pissed off at everyone involved.

You have no business watching two five year-old kids late at night at your age. On the otherhand, you have no control over your 17 year-old brother's hormones, or those of his girlfriend.

Where were your parents at the time?  Do they know what was going on?

If they allow you to babysit in your home, they share in the responsibility.

The boy's mother should know this, it's sad that she took something you had no control over and spread it all over town. But you do have a responsibility to protect the kids under your care from everything!  

The brother should have had his door locked. If he doesn't have a lock on his door, he needs to go somewhere else to get his rocks off.

I really want to say something about parents who allow their 17 year-old kid to have s*x under their roof, but I can't. I'm a little too upset at the moment.

Answer 5

Be mad at your mom who should be mad at your brother. It's not your fault your brother was ******* his girlfriend and the twins walked in on them.

Answer 6

He should have had enough sense to lock his door if he had those plans in mind.  Unfortunately he has cost you your job and any hopes of getting another because HE did not think of anyone but himself.  

YES you have every right to be mad at him.  Have you talked about this with your parents?  If not, do so.  They might like to know what he is doing in their house.

Answer 7

Yup, I guess you have every right to be mad at him. But don't do anything serious to him like physical attacks or whatever.

Besides, you can find another job aside from babysitting.