Am i self-centered or is she??????????

Question

well whenever me and my two best friends are walkin around downtown atleast one car hollars or honks the horn at us.(at night). Well most of the time my one friend autamatically thinks and says that they are always talking about her. Well she has pretty big b***s than us but she makes it worse bc she wears really low cut shirts. I have a decent size rack but i dont show them off constantly by wearing excessivley low shirts. And my other friend doesn't have much at all. Well we have confronted her on this and she just says well what would they have to honk at for you. and it makes me really mad.

am i being self-centered? is she?

Answer 1

if your asking for my opinion then read this:

for me you are beautiful and your friend is jealous of your beauty. If she acts immaturely then you will figure it out. Stand out . You are better than your friend.

Answer 2

The main thing is ur frnds dont be rude or anything just be frnds ok

Answer 3

does it actually matter? no one is ugly, so dont try and make us feel sorry for you! i think your jeolous.  

Answer 4

My thoughts are:  who cares?  Are the three of you having a competition as to who has the best bod?  Isn't your friendship more valuable than that?

Find something else to talk about that is of more importance.

Answer as to what the boys want. . . . they are honking and making comments about the b***s....DUH!

Answer 5

its not you its her she is very, very self centred. i think she puts you down etc to make herself feel better. rise above it hun x*x

Answer 6

You are both being self-centred. But please realise that you, and your friend are both OK and just confused by things you see and hear on TV and other media. But dont worry, the media (tv, papers etc) WANT you to be at war with your friends. they want everyone to be selfish.

You are a compassionate person for being concerned with this matter, so good on you.  Now if you want to be strong and influence people and live an amazing life, you must realise that we are ALL the same you me, your friends. We all struggle with selfish thoughts, but we can overcome them, and when we do, we have won the game. There is a part of us, powerful part of our brains and bodies, which is only activated when we turn off our self-centredness.

Answer 7

she is.

and having a large b***s isn't all guys honk at, I mean my friend and I don't have big b***s at all but guys are honking and hollering at us all the time. I find it rather disrespectful really, because I think that by honking their horns they are not thinking about anything more than how they would like to shag you.

So next time she says it think of her saying im a easier shag that you.

Answer 8

She is