Am i sick or having a physco problem?

Question

ok..my mum is white and my dad is too dark.almost black...the result me looking like an indian or sth....i was ok with it untill some family members camr and were joking telling me your the only black member in the family and it happened more than once and i got mad because of that then i started to feel well jelous or mad at mum or/and dad. am no racist i have black friends we are cool..but having a white mother is kinda feels me weired and now i dont talk to mum (father is dead)....is it a phase or do i need help....cause its been a long time since am ignoring my mother and feel that i dont belong to with her and i cant get it out of my mind anymore

Answer 1

Ask yourself if no one had ever said anything about your skin would you feel insecure about it? I think so and that fact that you were made out of a love where race didn't matter should make you a very proud product eh?

Anyway try not to be mad at your mom because of your insecurity and try not to hate yourself because of others. Good Luck! :)

Answer 2

You need to focus on self acceptance first, then acceptance of others follows. You only have one mom, so don't let family members comments drive a wedge between you and her.