Am i the only girl who's sick of desperate guys?

Question

please tell me i'm not alone. would love to share your experience of that kind.

girls only, thanks.

Answer 1

Anyone's sick of desperate boys/girls.

Answer 2

well, i used to like someone alot till he got attached.

recently they broke up, and he got really clingy at that girl.

he was like really wanting her back.

and the girl actually cheated on him.

when i see this side of the guy, i feel he is so wimpy,

i feel so sick.

i immediately feel so stupid to have liked him.

your not alone.

Answer 3

You sound like a warm and caring person.

Answer 4

I've the unique experience of having been deployed. It's rather hilarious. There are girls here, of course... some get hit on and some don't, but even the most atrocious has gotten some play. Guys (and some girls) refer to "desert goggles." As in "I've not gotten laid or seen a woman out of uniform in 10 months, even Paula Jones would have some appeal..."

The very, very hot girls don't have guys approaching them much, I've noticed. (I'm not one of those girls. I'm very mid-range.) The guys have accepted that those girls can have pick of the litter, so they mostly wait for them to walk away and then begin discussing in dramatic detail what they'd be doing to her if they could.

Being an acceptably ok-pretty woman has yielded me several offers, ranging from "I'd need 5 more months here to find him attractive" to "Wow. He IS cute. I need a cold shower."

Desperation isn't the same here as it is in the US (or anywhere civilized) so it's hard to say. What would normally make a guy come off as desperate in America seems almost normal here as folks try to rebel against school-age rules imposed on the military.. "No alcohol, no s*x, etc...."

So a girl has to find it funny at least... I was sitting in a smoke shack 2 or 3 days ago and this poor infantry guy was sitting there just waiting to go home- the very moment I walked in he was watching me. I wanted to laugh but I didn't... I just knew he was thinking "b***s, b***s, b***s.... b***s!"

Answer 5

No, I feel their pain. It must be awful to be desperate for some attention. I presume this is what you're talking about.

I remember being a lonely teenage girl. I'm fairly attractive and a bookworm, but no movie star. Therefore, I can empathize with the guys.

If I can, I will introduce people to others and maybe someone will hook-up.

Answer 6

It depends...desperately trying to get laid is a huge turn off...always...

Answer 7

Like, totally.

Answer 8

i hear ya girl...  im always getting hit on by the worst losers id never go near... not only dont they have any mony.... most dont even have jobs!!! lol

Answer 9

I feel their pain as I feel yours too

Answer 10

I had a gf who thought I was too clingy and wimpy, so I doinked her hotter sister.

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but she didnt seem to like that eithier

women :p.