Am i to spoiled???please answer?

Question

i always get everything i want when i want it......and sometimes i feel really bad because i get everything i want without having to work for it...i've been spoiled since i was born because im the only child am i to spoiled?

Answer 1

yes you are. but you sound like your trying not to be one. the best thing i can say is just doing some chores around the house without being asked and dont take anything for granted. And do not brag about the stuff you get.

Answer 2

I never call a person spoiled for having everything they want simply because there parents have a lot of money, I call them spoiled when they don't appreciate what they have

I also classify someone as "spoiled" when they think money is the way to make friends, and a way to make people jealous

Answer 3

your asking am i spolied but in your question you say you are spoiled okay

Answer 4

If you are concerned about it, and want to change, start turning these things down, or insist on working for them. If you are not concerned then you are blowing hot air, and just want to be seen. Either way, the best answer is to work for what you have.

Answer 5

ah, that explains the screen name. Yes, you are too spoiled. Is that the answer to your quetion?!?

Answer 6

you answered your own question

by saying:" I've been spoiled since I was born "

Answer 7

Honey, if you are this concerned already and say these things about your self then you probably are right. You are spoiled. but only you decide as to whether youwant to be a brat or not.

Answer 8

You obviously already know the answer to this 'dilemma' [sp?].

SpoiledPrincess?

if you've put that you're spoiled in your avatar name, and then you have to ask this question; then yes. you are way too spoiled for your own good.

it'll come back to bite you in the fricken' a** later on in your life.

Answer 9

i wouldn't say spoiled brat, but i would say spoiled. as long as you don't flaunt it so much its not bratty. but if you do then that is a spoiled brat in my opinion. its good that you feel bad about it which is a trait that makes you not be a brat.  

Answer 10

there's a difference between spoiled and spoiled brat. if you're a spoiled brat, you get all this stuff and you don't appreciate any of it and just want more. if you're just spoiled, you get what you want but your thankful and try hard to show it, if not, you wish you could show it better. think about how you act about it and guess which one you are.

Answer 11

Well let's see...

"i've been spoiled since i was born because im the only child "

There is your answer.

You are.

You even said it yourself.

Answer 12

Don't think so- we need to know you personally for that but I get everything I want when i want it but that's because i don't ask for much and the things i ask for are generally things like; an ice cream, a book or photos to be printed.

To be honest though, it really depends what you want.  

Answer 13

Your avatar name?  Honestly, yes, you do sound spoiled.  I'm pretty sure you know that though, so why ask?

Answer 14

well if you act like it you cant expect everything to be done for you when you want it! You are a spoiled BRAT!

Answer 15

well the people who say that r prolly just jelous that u get everything u want

i wouldent call u spoiled i actually hate that word it just sounds bad

i dont think there is anything wrong with gettin wat u ask for

and im not sayin that cause i get everything i want cause trst me everything i hav i had to work for

but i wouldent worry bout it anyone who says that ur spoiled r just jelous

Answer 16

ok

well i can sorta relate

i don't think u sound like a brat

u may be spoiled but really there isn't anything wrong with that

especially if ur an only child

its pretty normal

do u have to help around the house or do any chores?

if u do don't feel guilty for being "well off"

and the fact that u feel bad shows that u r'nt a brat

.people that are calling u a spoiled brat r just jealous:)

just don't flaunt ur stuff to others

good luck

Answer 17

Are you grateful with what you get??

Do you thank your parents when they give you something nice?

Do you throw a hissy when you dont get what you want?

Answer 18

If even you are acknowledging that you have been spoiled since you were born, and considering your screen name, and the fact that others are aware of it, too (and tell you so) - then yes, you probably are.

That is a shame. I am an only child as well and I did get a lot growing up...BUT my parents also made sure to teach me responsibility and made it a point to say NO sometimes. They knew that an only child could easily become spoiled and they worked hard to avoid that. As an adult, the fact that they raised me how they did has served me well.

Why don't you voluntarily work for some things, even if your parents are (unfortunately) not requiring it of you?  

Answer 19

yes

Answer 20

Well, if you're old enough to work, get a job. Problem solved.

Answer 21

You answered your own question. Why waste the five points?  

Answer 22

i get everything i want and I'm spoiled but do not get it when i want it

Answer 23

i'm sort of the same way

i mean, why not?

your not spoiled, your parents love you and want everything for you

;) enjoy it!

Answer 24

If you get everything you want when you want it, then yes, you are spoiled.

but- it's good that you feel bad sometimes, it means that you don't think the world is all about you.

maybe, you could defiantly do some volunteer work.