Am i trash for doing this?

Question

ok there is this consilor i like, like a mom & i told her something, it's private, & my sis heard me tell cathy & told my mom i told cahty so my mom said i can't talk to cahty any more. so when i told cathy i can't talk to her any more i could'nt stop crying. cathy would stop asking why so i yelled at her that she would never understand. was i wrong 4 yelling?

Answer 1

HUH?!?????

Answer 2

I guess it must have been very difficult for you to tell her that you can no longer talk to her. Sometimes when we feel very upset about something, we cannot help but act irrationally. So, you are definitely not trash, just human. I am sure you did not mean to yell at her but the emotion got the better of you. Perhaps, it would help to explain to her how you felt and maybe she would understand. Do give her a chance to understand what is happening if you are comfortable. If you really can't, then perhaps telling her that you can't when you have cooled off and are calmer would be better. Do take care!

Answer 3

I am sure your counselor understands that you are going through a hard time. But i must state that if you are having a counselor which the purpose is to tell them what is happening within you and your life, and your family are being like this..it sound's quite unreasonably to me. As your mum should understand once you are inviting one into your home to give advice and support to you, her daughter...in all respect she should try to understand how difficult it must be for you and needs to understand that what maybe simply easy for the rest of your family may not be quite as clear cut for you.

It seems your mum has her reasons why she does not want you speak to your counselor, maybe you said too much..but i guess when you do have a counselor your mum should have known once a person opens up their is no limits and it is down to you whether you want to hold information back or speech it out.

I hope things can be resolved and things can better for you. ;-)

Answer 4

whaaaaa?!

Answer 5

woah.. is this what you call english?

try picking up a dictionary and an english teacher first..

Answer 6

wut???

Answer 7

Ok.

I had to go back and read it about 5 times but I think i got it.

You weren't necessarily wrong for yelling, you couldn't help it.

It's not your fault.

Try and tell her why you can't talk to her anymore.

Answer 8

english please  

Answer 9

sounds like you need to talk to your sister. i think. try english please.

Answer 10

WTF. there's something call PUNTUATION MARKS.

slow down & take a break.

Answer 11

No, you're just like venting all of the emotional stress.  You probably made Cathy feel bad by accident, so you should at least apologize one last time.  Why is your mom so concerned about this subject?  You were probably just venting or relieving stress...  You really don't need this much stress in your life.  And you're not trash at all.

<3

Answer 12

I think there may be a problem with your mother being mad at you for not telling your counselor everything. How else is she supposed to help you?  Did your mother do something wrong?  

Your counselor is used to emotional people.  I'm sure she didn't take your yelling personally.  

Answer 13

What the fack ?!

Answer 14

ummmm...... what????

Answer 15

huh??!!??!!???!!

Answer 16

i think you were...after all it wasnt her fault...she was just wanting to know what was wrong

Answer 17

no, even though cathy doesn't know why you yelled it was because you were frustrated about the situation with your mom and sister.

Answer 18

WWWWWHHHHHHHAAAATTTTTTTT??????

Answer 19

maybe you should ask your mom to introduce you to punctuation  

Answer 20

Well yes you shouldnt have yelled. She was just confused and hurt. YOU should of been nicer about it. YOUR the one thats going to stop talking to her.

Just suck it up, and move on.

Answer 21

what???

Answer 22

Umm i think so...

Answer 23

Maybe Cathy should meet with cousin moe, larry and curly.

Answer 24

you just made everyone's iq drop 10 points

Answer 25

Okay, first of all; learn some english, please, half the people here just said "Whaaaa?" And for those people, please, if you don't know, don't answer--sheesh. So, did you yell at Cathy, or your mom? Either way, it was wrong to yell.

Answer 26

yes you are wrong. Oh course she wants to know why she cannot talk to her any more. I know you were emotional but you didn't have a right to yell at her, exspecially if that was the last time you are talkin to her. You were wrong. I hope your issue turns out. good luck.

Answer 27

Your not trash but you are in the wrong. There was no need to yell at her. I suggest going back to Cathy (or whoever it was) and telling her in a calm way why you can't talk to her anymore. Or if you can't tell her to her face just drop a note even if it has to be anonymous saying that although you would like to keep talking to her you can't because of reasons you cannot control good luck!