Am i viewing guys wrong? full points!?

Question

I'm 15 annnd going into highschool.

[ just so that helps ]

Why do a lot of teenage girls want a relationship so quickly?

I know I've gone through wanting this certain thing before,

but then again I also used to believe girls didn't need a boyfriend...

I've talked to others about my views, but they all say "having

a boyfriend is a good thing; maybe you just are afraid of being rejected."

did i just answer my own question?

what do you thinks the deal with my negative

view on guys? and how can i change it, if its wrong?

(full points to best answer.)

Answer 1

Your view isn't negative nor is it wrong. You're simply waiting for the right one to come around so that the right one can be your first boyfriend instead of your 203rd boyfriend. The ones who are telling you that you're only fearing rejection are the ones who have boyfriends only because they think it boosts their confidence. At the age of 15, having a boyfriend is absolutely okay but definitely not necessary. You don't have to change your views just because everyone else has a lack of self esteem and thinks that a boyfriend makes the whole world turn round. Besides, it's high school. Maybe focusing on school is the most important thing to do right now. :)

You don't need a man to make you happy or to prove your self worth. At this age, I shouldn't even say man because they're all boys. "Don't need a man"- Pussycat Dolls :)