Am i weird for liking a guy who who isnt all that attractive???

Question

I like a boy that is really sweet and caring and loving, but all my friends think i am crazy for liking him, becuase hes not really attractive

Am i weird for liking this guy??

Answer 1

I think its totally normal. If you like the guy and want to date him or something dont let your freinds pressure you into not doing it if he really is a great guy. If the guy was a jerk your girls are lookin out for you but if hes great then tell them to suck it up. You need to do what will make you happy. Several people, including family member have said they think my bf looks g*y. Hes cute but a little metro and wear alot of fitted t's so he kind of look like will from will and grace. Hes not g*y though and hes a the best bf Ive ever had. We have a son together and hes an amazing dad, he sacrifices everything for us. Looks fade, how the guy treats you is whats really important.

Answer 2

No its not bad if you like him. If he is a good person and treats you right then thats what matters. Plus your friends arent paying yoru bills so you should worry about the men you date. As long as your happy then thats important

Answer 3

Of course not.  

Answer 4

I commend you for noticing something about your preferred gender other than physical appearance, and appreciating this boy for who he really is inside. Your friends need to grow up.

Answer 5

I have said this before on this site, love and warmth come from within ,physical attraction is only skin deep, if you like this guy, are other peoples opinions that important to you. ?.

Answer 6

No if anything it makes u a better person I think

Answer 7

Nope; that's where the whole 'true love' story starts... True love is loving someone because of their perfections, not despite them. :)

Answer 8

nothing is wrong with you at all. it just means you're not shallow like the rest of them

Answer 9

It's rare to find someone who looks past the surface.

No, it's not at all crazy to like someone for who they are, & not for what they look like.

God bless. <><

Answer 10

No, it shows maturity and an ability to look beyond superficial appearances and see the real person.  Sweet, caring, and loving will carry a relationship a lot farther than looks.  I good-looking jerk is still a jerk.  

Answer 11

Caring for someone just because they are "cute" is shallow and immature. Someone who is sweet, caring and loving -- now that's something worth getting to know. Besides, he may be one of those guys who doesn't grow into his looks until he's closer to 25 or 30.  

Answer 12

No that's not weird. I like "ugly" guy ALL the time. They are more genuine and in a way sexier to me.

Answer 13

Honey, this IS the L*****n section...lol...but, back to your answer...  You have the ability to see the 'real' beauty...why would you even consider giving up that ability...just so you can be as shallow as your friends...  Oh, wait, you did say you were going to put this in the 'straight' forum didn't you?  Oh well, so much for that...you'll just have to do what your friends tell you to do...

Answer 14

Not at all, vice versa :D