Am i wrong for having these thoughts?

Question

I have been with my bf for about 6 months now and were doing great. I really love him and do not want anyone else. Before him i was with another guy for about 4 years on and off. Im totally over the other guy but i still think about him sometimes. Is it wrong?

Answer 1

No, it's not wrong - it's natural. 4 years of your life is a freaking long time - there was definitely chemistry there if you went so long. It's okay to think about him sometimes. I wouldn't really tell your bf that, but don't worry, it's natural.

Answer 2

i dont think any thought is ever wrong, if you think something then theres nothing you can do about it. its only wrong to act on it.

Answer 3

It's okay to dream about someone you spent a lot of time with. I am totally over my ex-husband and occasionally I dream about him, he's just like there, not doing anything bad, not doing anything good. I've been with the same man for 9 years and I don't know why I dream about my ex. I certainly don't want him there.

Answer 4

There is nothing wrong with it. Four years is not a short spam of your life. Till the time your current life is not effected its fine.

Answer 5

no of course not. the other guy was a big part of your life, and hes prolly never gonna stop popping up in your head.

as long as it doesnt start problems in your current relationship its fine.  

Answer 6

i  know  what  you  mean...

  I  dont see  anything  wrong   at  all...

its   probabaly   what  that  person  meant  to  you..    

Answer 7

no! but obviously you will think about the other guy cause you have been with him for 4yrs and you both were close too.. and now you found a new person and is with him for 6 months, you love him a lot but don't make him upset by talking about the other guy a lot!! try not to think about the other guy cause its over and that will be good for you and also for everyone..

Good Luck!!!!

Answer 8

4 years is a long time..so I can understand why you think of your former b/f. Eventually you'll get over him and keep your mind solely on your present one