An Alcoholic? I think I need help.?

Question

I am starting, no I have had a drinking problem. I don't want to push my husband away, he's stayed with me through all this. It's been going on for ut 3 months. How can I control it? How does my husband feel? I wish I knew how to stop, but I have no idea. Also, I drink at night, I go out get beer and drink, do you think he should not let me go anywhere no matter what when darkness falls? Please somebody help me, I want to keep my family! Plus how can you tell when someone is an alcohollic?

Answer 1

I would suggest seeing a counselor or going to an AA meeting if you cannot stop drinking. I broke up with my ex of a year for this problem; it's very hard to be in a relationship where the person seems to "love" alcohol more than they love you. I would take care of the problem before it takes care of you.

Answer 2

u no your an alcoholic when nothing else but the booze is important and if your seeing the signs of a future problem then that's really big of you and ask a for help there is no shame in asking for help.  thiers only shame when you are to scare to ask so put on your big girl pants and get ready for the long haul and if your have friends that want to help you let them no ones putting you down and i think your awesome for shareing with everyone  see your have already taken the 1st step youll do just fine so get some help and get a hobby like biking or start a play date group with other moms in your community and keep yourself busy best of luck to ya!!