My best friend's depressed and in pain. Shes been crying for days, she doesn't eat, she doesn't speak and most importantly she's not letting anybody in. As her close friend i am concerned. Here's what happened.
She met a guy online a couple months ago and she's slowly and surely falling in love with him. Shes had a few relationships, but never found the guts to tell any of the boys i love you. (i don't think she even did and she values those words). This boy is different though, she says, she can't control it, that it comes natural. She tells me he understands her and that he makes everything alright. The distance hurts; of course and i know how she feels, but she's in it to win (she wants this guy baddd)
4 days ago she came over my house and told me how a simple conversation turned into this monster fight. They're both scared and concerned about their feelings. school, work, distance is preventing them from seeing each other. He overreacted and told her that maybe a love like this wasn't possible, that no matter how much he cared about her he couldn't afford seeing her get hurt if he was to dissapoint her. She's blinded by her first true love and she's desperately seeking for the right choice. He told her that maybe they should stay friends, but she exploded a couple days after and told him, she couldn't supress her feelings for him...that it wasnt fair.
what should i do as a friend and what should she do as the friend?
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