An ex calls you after five years, he broke up with you after you tell him you think you were pregnant?

Question

He wants to have take you to dinner b/c he had been thinking about you. Do you tell him you aborted his baby or pretend it turned out alright?

Answer 1

He just wants to get some.. more.

Answer 2

look he obviously doesnt care if you had a baby or not-it's been five years. i wouldnt go to dinner with him.

Answer 3

Not sure that this is paranormal ,can't think of anything off handed, but my first impression is ...No! I would not go not to dinner with him.  You have cut ties with him, leave it where it lay.

Answer 4

Have some respect for yourself. If he really cared about you he wouldn't have left you the first time, now come on, move on with your life.

Answer 5

Tell him the truth.

If you did have the baby he/she will be much better off with a father.

Answer 6

Don't meet up with him again, move on with your life (hopefully you have already) if he dumped you once he can do it again. We all think about our exes from time to time, that doesn't mean we need to see them or talk to them though. Leave him in your past where he belongs.

Answer 7

why would u want to go to dinner with a man who acted like a boy when u needed him? if u think u still want him then if he asks tell the truth. there is no good foundation built on lies.

Answer 8

He's a jerk!   Don't go out with him!

He abandoned you and will  do it again.

Answer 9

If he broke up with you because you were pregnant, why would you consider even talking to him? But if you are going to, I wouldn't say anything unless he asks! If he asks, tell him you miscarried or gave it up for adoption. I mean really, what kind of future do you have with him anyway?

Answer 10

don't go out with him.

Answer 11

do what u feel best doing...i think its best you tell him

Answer 12

Although what you did so many years ago was your choice, there were many wrongs involved.  Mistakes were made by everyone involved but yet it was a long time ago.

Answer is in a Psychological frame and not a religious one...  

Repent, forgive, forget and move on.  If you do these things then you will know what to do now, and in the future.

Answer 13

You said you told him you thought you were pregnant 5years ago yeah ? well what has he asked since you have been in contact with him again about your baby, what did you tell him ? i think that if you still have feeling for him and he feels the same as you, you should tell him, before someone else does. Why say you aborted a baby, when it hasnt happened that is cruel to hurt someone like that, did you have an abortion ?

Answer 14

don't make it sound like it was all his fault. i had a girl lie to me about that situation and so i stayed with her for another year, the ***** was making all kinds of excuses saying that she had a mis-carriage and stuff. even though i loved her, i straight up felt digusted of her and kicked her to the curb.

i don't think you're telling the whole story. be honest.

Answer 15

He found out he doesn't have any parental responsibility anymore no matter what you did, so you are toy again?

Have a little respect for yourself.

Answer 16

Do you think you're in the  psychology section? This is parapsychology...about the paranormal.

I think you should meet with him...but I think you should do it at your house and not in public since you might want to bite his head off. Just don't let him kiss you or get close to you.  Don't forget where you've been.

Answer 17

hie dear i would go to the dinner dressed to kill to show him that even after he dumped me i still went on well.If the talks went well then we get bek to each other i would later tell the truth.If not i would not and i would say i was stressed so i had a miscarriage .Thats wat i wld do

chao

Answer 18

Go out to dinner, order the most expensive lobster and champagne, then tell him to rack off!

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You didn't have 'his baby' aborted - all he gave you was a teaspoon of sperm, what you had aborted was your foetus.

Tell him whatever will annoy him the most, how about that the baby was born a r****d due to the defective male genes and died shortly after birth.

I reckon he already knows there is no baby, why else would he be calling?