An ex-student teacher. am i being stupid?

Question

i don't want to sound like a complete and utter nutter! lool but theres this ex-student teacher and i message him alot for advice and someone to have a chat with and the other day we met up for a propper chat and we chatted for 2 and a half hours about loads of stuff. thing is he sent a message to me saying it was good to see me again but he put "its not like i am a teacher no more is it , i dont work there , were just friends , you can talk to me about anything anytime you want"

what hit me was the fact he said "just friends"

i don't wanna sound desperate or noffin cuz i know nothing will ever happen between us but i like him soo mutch :S

hees not that mutch older than me! and he was willing to meet up with me in the first place!

i'm getting so confused and i don't know why!

Answer 1

Stay far away and spend the time that you would normally spend chatting with said individual learning standard English and brushing up on your grammar skills.

Answer 2

It was very unethical of him to suggest this meeting.

Answer 3

Don"t allow yourself to be manipulated by this teacher>  Without having met you, I'm sure you're a fine person, but you have to ask yourself what someone with a college degree would have in common with someone as young as you.  The answer should be nothing.  However, he'll try to convince you that you do have loads in common, and try to get in your good graces by claiming just friendship, which seems harmless enough, right?  No, it will end badly, and I can almost guarantee you he does not have your best interest at heart.  Protect yourself.

Answer 4

I think this is in the wrong section. Try posting in the relationships section.

Good Luck!  

Answer 5

If he values his career he needs to straighten up!

Answer 6

There are a lot of things you haven't told us.  First of all, how old are you?  If you are not over 18, he has no business spending 2-1/2 hours chatting with you, let alone anything else.  Secondly, I hope he said, "I'm not a teacher ANY more," for two reasons.  First of all, because it would be correct grammar.  But secondly, because if he is not a teacher at all, and you are over 18, then it is okay, but if he is just moving on to another school, he has no business "meeting up" with a former student.  

You are confused because he isn't keeping his boundaries very straight.  My guess is that you are better off without him, but as I said, there is a lot I don't know.

Answer 7

Well, could be he said "just friends" to cover his bases until he was sure about how you felt about him. He may like you but, since he was in a position of authority with you, he is playing it cool and not trying to be the one coming on to you. Perhaps, if you told him how you felt, he might also confirm how he feels, if he feels that way for you at all. At least you'll know.

Answer 8

You are 14.  It is inappropriate for him to be anything but your friend.  Find someone your own age!