An insult to black men, "that they can only get ulgy fat white women"???

Question

i am black man, and i like white women, or black women.

how am i suppose to feel when i heard this??

it really bothering me, cause i have been seeing it down the street lately.

and fat girl want to go out with me.

so, can't black men do better?

Answer 1

try to became more friendly ...go with sports like swimming lots of white ladies, then make friend, and i sure u'll find it interesting.

Answer 2

As a Black man the first woman that ever showed me unconditional love was my mother; then my grandmothers, aunts and cousins. I have been loved by Black women all my life. In return I have loved and love Black women. This is not a knock against White women. They have never loved me like Black women have therefore I must go with what I know.

I think certain individual Black men have chosen by most standards unattractive, overweight White women as their mates for reasons of their own. I think whoever is telling you this is painting Black men with a broad paint brush. All this person has to do is turn on the television and I'm sure they will see Black men in relationships with attractive women of all races.  

Answer 3

I've heard this a lot on Yahoo Answers and didn't believe it...finally one day I asked my (black) husband about it and he says it happens often!  I don't know why--black men certainly can do better, but my husband says some of them don't care what the chick looks like--as long as the chick is white.  STUPID if you ask me.

Answer 4

I understand what you are saying and i can only speak from what my own two have seen, but yes, I usually see bm with fat ww or they are usually unattractive. Just being real. Seal and Heidi Klum are an exception.

Answer 5

- Black men can do better; if you're a good man and have standards then you should be eventually able to snag one that is not fat

Unfortunately what I see most of the times fit the stereotype

Answer 6

Sorry man. I live in a decent size town and thats all I see, Black dude/ Fat white chic. I find myself asking the same question.I don't get it either.

Answer 7

Say that to Seal!

Answer 8

Instead of worrying about the color of your skin, worry about the thickness of it.

Answer 9

sorry but what do you mean DO BETTER?

Who cares if their, black, white, skinny or fat?

Answer 10

Well, I guess you would deserve the insult since you have no problem with insulting woman who have extra pounds on themselves.  Are you kidding?  I've seen good looking black men with ugly woman both black and white, good looking women, both black and white with fat men, both black and white.  What the h**l does color have to do with anything??????????????????

Answer 11

I can see why you would be insulted.  It is like black guys don't deserve more or white women are so great that black men aren't worthy of the thin one.  However I have a problem with black guy that want black women who like Halle Berry, but will date a white woman who looks like something from Jerry Springer.

Answer 12

Sometimes people can't help who they fall in love with. If you get too picky you won't find anyone, so I think more people should be open minded.