An older guy from work gave me his number, what to do?

Question

Okay so I am 19 (and I look even younger) and this guy from work who has to be in his mid 30s or older is always chatty with me and is always picking on me. He's always asking me weird questions like trying to get to know me, which is cool whatever, I haven't been at this job long so it's expected. However, today he was asking me what I was doing after work and later he gave me a tiny slip of paper with his phone number on it that said "call me". What is he trying to do? I mean is there anything other than romance that he could want from me? Am I looking at this the wrong way??? It's all just freaking me out a tad and I just want to make sure that it's justified.

And to make things a million times more awkward, he's one of my friggin supervisors. I don't know what to do! Please help!

Answer 1

This guy is a FREAKIN LOSER TAKE ADVANTAGE CREEP! Listen you don't need that . Don't give in to him he should no better! You should either report him or find another job. Do what your heart tells you!! Your heart will never guide you wrong.!!!!!!!

Answer 2

If you are not interested in his advances, you should tell him so.  You should also go to his boss, or a person in HR and explain the situation to them.  This is precursor to sexual harassment.

Good Luck!

Answer 3

Take the piece of paper to Human Relations and give it to a manger there. Tell them how uncomfortable the guy is making you.

Answer 4

HI JESS!

YOUR SUPERVISOR HAS CROSSED THE LINE,HE HAS TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF YOU. HE BEING A MANAGER KNOWS OFFICE RELATIONSHIPS ARE USUALLY FORBIDDEN BY CORPORATE, AND NEVER PAN OUT!  IF YOUR CO WORKERS FIND OUT YOU ARE DATING A SUPERVISOR,THEY WILL CONTACT HUMAN RESOURCES AND EXPOSE YOUR RELATIONSHIP. AND THE COLD SHOULDER FROM ALL THE OTHER EMPLOYEES!!!

1.TELL YOUR SUPERVISOR YOU DO NOT WANT TO DATE AND WANT TO KEEP YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROFESSIONAL.

2 IF HE DOES NOT HONOR YOUR REQUEST CONTACT YOUR HUMAN RESOURCE MANAGER,EXPLAIN THE ADVANCES YOUR IMMEDIATE SUPERVISOR HAS MADE

3 BY TRYING TO WORK THIS OUT WITH YOUR SUPERVISOR YOU MAY BE ABLE TO CONTINUE WORKING THEIR WITH OUT ANY RETALIATION.

4 JESS YOU SEEM SMART ENOUGH AND WISE ENOUGH TO NOT FALL INTO THE CORPORATE ROMANCE TRAP,YOU CANNOT WIN

5.WISE-MAN SAY DON'T **** WHERE YOU EAT.

Answer 5

He is obviously coming onto you, and it is highly inappropriate. You need to report him to HR. If what he is doing isn't sexual harassment, it is pretty close. You shouldn't have to work in that kind of environment.