Angry, aggressive 3 yr old boy peeing on carpet

Question

I have a 3 yr old son (2nd child). He is on target & maybe even advanced developmentally. He has always been aggressive (breaks things, rough, not nice to our animals or loves them too hard...). He interacts well with other children and adults. He does exhibit his behavior to people other than his father and I (neighbors, school...). He can be very loving at times. He is potty trained, but now is peeing on his carpet if he is ever out of sight. We use time-outs, take away favorite toys...we are consistant and give a warning then do what we say. No major changes in his life...He is very, very active. He is very sensitive to sounds, tastes, and the feeling of some things. He is becoming more difficult with each day. Any advice thoughts? Help!

Answer 1

Take your hand, apply it to his bottom. I never would have been able to pull things like that when I was a kid, and the only kids who did were the ones with the supposedly "enlightened" parents who wouldn't give the kids a swat when they needed one. Time outs and taking away toys work great for some kids, but some of them really do need a swat before they grow into these behaviors and nothing is going to change them. I know time outs never worked for me but I grew up long enough ago that you even got licks in school.

Answer 2

buy a package of pull-ups, and show him "look what I bought for you", if you pee on the floor again, then his will become your new panties, because you're not big enough not to wet your panties, you have to wear ones that will not make my carpet dirty. and then follow through with the threat.

Take his sensitivity to sound, taste etc. seriously, and not just as a stage. Visit the link below for help on this issue.

Answer 3

I would be happy to help. My 2nd daughter and 3rd daughter both behaved similar to your son. My suggestion is to examine his diet. There are chemicals and toxins in everyday foods that can cause children, and adults to behave exactly as your son is. Some reactions are mild, like headaches, some are severe- like shock. And in between, behaviors and abilities are impaired.

He also sounds like a sensory child. He needs to FEEL everything, not just see it. (I have a daughter like that). This can also be toned down with following a chemical free, preservative free, dye free diet.

I understand some people will thumb down this post, and it is only because they do not believe the link between the food we eat and our behavior.

Spanking won't work, drugs won't work. BTDT.

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All my best.  

Answer 4

WOW sounds like my toddlers.. Ya if you get a solution let me know.. I have 2 mean little boys ages 2 and 3 that love to pee in the carpet. and smear p**p on the walls and in the carpets.. parenthood sucks :(

Answer 5

I think he needs a little spanking on the booty if you ask me :)