Annoying friends dont get my message! help???

Question

i had a rude, mean, annoying friend in my school and this year she decided not to go to my school.i was INSANELY happy. i also have another annoying friend that i dont even hang out with in real life, she is a year younger than me and just went to my school last year; i never even talked to her. she freaks out when we havent im-ed in only two days and such. well friend 1, that left, now goes to the school of the annoying friend 2!!!!

they both dont understand that i dont really like them. i keep trying to drift away but its hard now! everytime im on AIM im invisible and i made my myspace not tell people im online just so they wouldnt comment me the second i get on it. they dont even talk about anything interesting, they just talk about being bored.

it got so bad that friend 1 actually startd IMING me WHILE I WAS INVISIBLE.

they dont understand that im trying to 'drift away' while staying on their good side, you know? i just am aweful at confrontation, even if theres no fault of my own

Answer 1

First, neither are your friends. Knowing someone doesn't make them a friend, they are acquaintances. If they text you, don't reply. When you see their phone number on your caller ID, don't answer. On your AIM messenger, you can block their individual addresses so they can't IM you. I don't use AIM anymore, so I can't remember where you do this. Try preferences.Why are they even listed on your messenger? Delete them. If you delete them, the next time they IM you, I think you have a choice of blocking them there too.

Answer 2

well just say it  already then it will be horrible get them off ur back  

Answer 3

If it were me, I'd go hang out with other friends and just ignore them. Hopefully one day you run into them in public and you look so cool with your "New Not Annoying Friends" they don't even bug you. I've done it countless times, it works.

Just, don't give into them. Hide your last login on myspace too. Keep being invisible on AIM, possibly delete them on there so you don't have to deal with them IMing you anymore. If they say you never talk to them anymore just say that you don't get on the computer much anymore and haven't had time to get on IM. If they comment you on myspace, don't comment them back. Maybe ONCE in a while, and avoid posting bulletins so they don't see that you've been on.

Go get another life without them and you'll be happy.

Good luck :)