My niece has an annual family BBQ which is coming up this weekend. My boyfriend of 10 years came with me last year and my niece told him then "you should of brought your kids". (he has 2 teen aged daughters). So this year I invited them and they said yes. My boyfriend already put in for the day off because he works weekends (will also lose a day's pay I might ad). So I e-mail my niece and tell her we are bringing his daughters and she tells me "no, I can't handle anymore people right now, please tell him I am sorry". Well, he was at my house when I read the e-mail and I could tell that he was very hurt. Now he says that he don't think he is going. If he doesn't go, then I will need to get a ride with another family member and all the cars are already going to be full. I feel bad that he already put in for a day off and won't get paid. I have not e-mailed my niece back and even if she changes her mind and says "yes" now, my boyfriend still won't go. What should I do? Should I be spiteful and stay home with him too?
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