Another discouraging month. in need of uplifting?

Question

I took an hpt this morning. BFN! I was not stressing about it, but I thought this month was kinda promising when my cervix was still high the other day. Usually, the few days leading up to my period, my cervix is so low, I can feel him bumping it during s*x. However, yesterday, it didn't feel low. I also usually get dry the day before, but today I'm still having creamy cm.

Af is due tomorrow but I wanted to take the test so I don't feel so disappointed tomorrow when it comes. But, its not working. I have a very perfect 26 day cycle and I'm not looking forward to tomorrow when it shows.

I've been off birth control for 13 months. I never thought it would take this long. Im getting so discouraged. I just need a little uplifting tonight.

Good luck to all who are still in the tww.

Answer 1

I feel your pain, we have been trying for about the same lenght of time.  It is hard not to get your hopes up, this month my cycle went to the 26th should have been 20th.  But that wasn't even to far off because a few months back that is what it was.  I really do hope this is it for you, if not you can always have fun trying right ; )  Maybe God is waiting for you and one of your best buds to go through this toghter.  Who knows but when it does happen it is going to be extra special.  All the luck to ya.

Answer 2

God is just waiting to deliver your very special baby when it is time!! Don't be discouraged!! It will happen when it is meant to be and just think all the time waiting is going to end with you finally hold your little blessing! Just look to the future and how happy you will be soon!! Just dont "try" to hard and let it happen!! GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 3

Wow. That really touched me for some reason. I've never been in your shoes so I don't have any true words of encouragement. But please know that I, a random stranger, am going to pray for you tonight.

Answer 4

You could still be testing too early. Hopefully, your monthly won't come tomorrow and you can test again in a few days. Keep your head up! I know it's hard and it's easy to get impatient.... baby dust * * * * * *

Answer 5

wait girl there is still hope for you looks a little early for you good luck lots of baby dust sent your way -k- good luck

Answer 6

Sorry about your BFN : (

I have a phobia of HPTs after getting only a few BFNs. So I understand how they really don't make you feel better about what's to come next (AF). I read something interesting in an email today...a line that stuck out to me and really spoke to me "God's delays are not his denials".  

~Still In My Prayers

Answer 7

I hear you. I was at wit's end last month when I got to visit my doc for the annual. I had a good cry and decided to take a month off of charting and watching every sign. Sure we're still babydancing, but without pressure. I don't know that this will be the month, but I feel like I can make it to the end and no biggie this time if we don't get that BFP this month.  Don't stress too much!

Answer 8

Keep the faith... I know it is extremely cliched, but you know how they say that "good things are worth waiting for." Every month I get a BFN, I tell myself that. I think to myself how much it is going to mean to me when I finally become a mommy knowing that I never gave up trying to create that little miracle.

Sometimes I tell myself that God is going to make my baby extra special and that only He knows when the designated time for me to become a mommy is. I have so much faith in God because he has worked miracles for me, and I know he will do the same for you. Never doubt that he has a plan for each and everyone of us, and I know it is in His plan to make you a mommy some day.

Good Luck and don't get discouraged even though I know how hard it is. I have been trying for four years... I will have you in my prayers.

Answer 9

I understand exactly what you are going though. Me and my husband are going though the same thing. We have been trying for almost 7 or 8 months now and nothing. Doctor put me on Clomid but nothing came of that. Plus i have endometrosis which makes it even harder for me. But we are putting are trust in the Lord Above and I know he will send us our bundle of joy when it is the right time. Maybe me and my husband are trying to hard. I don't know. All I can say Hun is just keep trying but don't try to hard just let the Lord take everything in his hands. Maybe your period wont come tomorrow and maybe you are testing a little too early. If your period is late wait a couple of days and test then. Try the first response pregnancy test. Those worked for my friend of mine on all 3 of her pregnancies. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Baby Dust to you...

Best of luck....