Another dream about my brother...Please read my other dream question for some background before reading this!?

Question

A Happy Dream!!!!!I went to his apt (he didn't have one in life)..a brownish tan couch..cordaroy I walked in without knocking like two steps in then up four stairs and he was sitting crossed-legged in front of a tv playing a videogame..there was a white kitchen table with a fake gold rim around the edge..one bedroom/kitchen that I didn't look in and a bathroom that had blue tile around the sink..I sat down on the edge of the couch with my arm on the arm rest on the right side and kept having to grab the cover that goes on the arm rest to keep it from falling off..he smiled at me and kept playing..neither of us talked through the whole dream he played and looked at me every once in a while and smiled..then went back to playing..I sat there and watched..in the corner behind him was a black and silver floor lamp that cast light onto the ceiling..it went on for a very long time..he was wearing bagging jeans and a white and blue t-shirt It was warm inside the room and it was very warmly lit

Answer 1

It sounds to me like he really visited you, and let you know that he is doing OK, has a nice place and is happy.

No reason to discuss anything.  You saw all those details because they are real.

After my father's mother died (in her 80's) he was very torn up about it - a couple months later he had an extremely vivid dream where she came to him and said "Don't worry about me, I have a little house and I'm doing great!"

I think the afterlife may have more similarities to this one than we think - no harps or sitting on clouds at all.

Answer 2

Good for you hun, Its what he wanted in the end. I hope you read my post before about me loosing my dad to cancer at 54. I dream of him so often. I read your other post and I feel for you so much. Ive lost a 16 year old cousin, 2 grandma's and my dad in the last year. Im at my end of it all. Dreams have made me coupe though. I want to believe so bad that when they come to you in a dream, its a final way of telling you , "its ok:" Im in a better place now. I really hope so