Another punishment??!!?

Question

Hi guys, this is another post about my punishment from my stepmom of 3 years, michelle (Shell). I'm female and 16 years old. My dad was away with work for 2 weeks so Shell was lookin after me. She asked me to look after my 2 little sisters (age 4 and 6) for 2 hours whilst she went shopping and visit a sick friend. After 20 minutes i went out with friends leavin kids with my cousin (age 15). I went 2 see my boyfriend & planned 2 be back before shell got home but we had a smoke & drink & i forgot! I came in 2 hours later stinking of smoke to find shell with the kids. I wasn't drunk but shell startd yelling so i told her to f*** off and walkd off. She shoutd me 2 come back so i did but told her my dad hated her & she should f*** off & sh*g her brother. I was already grounded from a week ago so she spun me around & spanked me with her hand, over the knee on my bare. The kids didnt see this. Was my punishment fair & how would you have punished me? My phone was alreadyconfiscated

Answer 1

I absolutely agree with your step moms punishment. You would have gotten that for drinking and smoking only from me. As for being unreliable I would have grounded you from all activities for an additional 1 1/2 Month. For the cursing at her I would have put a bar of soap in your mouth 15 mins per curse word. You had it easy in my opinion.

Answer 2

She should of taken your internet and computer away for the rest of the summer.

Now that would of been fair

Answer 3

NO YOUR PUNISHMENT WAS NOT FAIR AT ALL!!!!!,

a fair punishment would be you getting your bottom blistered with the back of a paddle and then being grounded for the next 3 months and having your little a$$ spanked soundly once a week after you and shell go to counceling.

Answer 4

Nope your 16 and she's not your real parent ,unless you think she is like a mom to u then yeah i guess it might be fair!

Answer 5

well I wouldn't have spanked you but you have alot of nerve talking to her that way, she entrusted you to watch your sisters for a mere two hours and you didn't take the responsiblity instead you handed them off to your cousin and went to drink and smoke, i think you are irresponsible and should be treated as such, no tv, no video games, no phone, no leaving the house for two weeks and then when the two weeks are up if you are a minute late you are grounded and if you smell of booze and smoke I'll send you to rehab

Answer 6

Come on now, whats up, you couldnt watch the kids for two hours!?!? If you really wanted to see your boyfriend you could've had him, come over while she was gone then, around the time that she was supposed to come home you couldve had him leave then ASK if you could go see him. (NOT THAT I RECCOMEND THE SNEAKYINESS) What are you doing smoking and drinking at 16 anyway!?!? You need to get your priorities straight, 2 hours is not a big deal. Now that you didnt want to just chill for those 2 hours your paying for it with you being grounded. H*LL yeah you deserved it. Now stop complaining and do the time.

Answer 7

Well lou-lou, you sound like you are on a really fast road that leads to a pretty hard life. What makes you think you can talk to an adult with such a trash mouth? Why are you smoking and drinking at 16? Was your punishment fair? Are you kidding me???? I do not spank my children (not one of them has ever spoken to me or any other adult like you did to her!) but I can guarantee that if any one of them would have tried to talk to me like that they would have had blisters on their bottom, been grounded from all things they loved and not seen the outside walls of my home for a very, very long time.

You should be ashamed of yourself!!

Answer 8

leaving your sisters with some one else will have scared the shizzle out of her

you were very wrong on that front

but she has no right to lay he hands on you

i would never punish my kids for drinking because it teaches that alcohol is taboo but smoking is very bad for your health but by 16 you should know that and i doubt any amout of grounding will stop you if your an addict

Answer 9

You are WAY out of line. Going for a smoke and a drink , at fifteen no less(!), while you are supposed to be watching your siblings and she only needed your two hours! You couldn't even do that and then you had the balls to tell her to ***** off!? If I had EVER done that I would've gotten a backhand and I would've deserved it!

Answer 10

You left little children home alone so you could go and miss behave with your boyfriend. I would have kicked you out and or beaten you.

Answer 11

You tried to deceive your father/stepmother by sneaking out and hoping to sneak back.  Two small children were put in your care, and you pawned them off on someone else.  Yes, you should've been harshly punished.  Personally I dont think a spanking at your age is appropriate, nor effective.

You have a lot of growing up to do.  You're disrespectful, non-caring and selfish.  God bless your stepmother for gritting her teeth and enduring teenage h**l with you.

Answer 12

Okay, spanking at 16??? a little awkward, but it sounds like she was at the end of the rope with you. Sounds like mutual respect is missing from both, hers and yours, ends. She asked you to watch the kids, and you take off, to go smoke and drink with your boyfriend. And you were already grounded. Think about if she was going to take you somewhere and then didn't... she would let you down right? well, you let her down when you didn't watch the kids. I'm not sayin the punishment is correct, but it sounds like you two have a difficult relationship, and since you were already grounded and she took your phone away, it sounds like that was the only thing she could do. respect is a 2 way street. if you want her to respect you, then you have to give respect to her. I guess if you were my daughter,  I would extend your grounding longer, and make sure you didn't leave and actually fulfill your grounding. No TV, phone, computer, ect. until it finally sunk in that when your grounded you don't have any luxuries.

Answer 13

****.....I would have spun you around and spanked the **** out of you too....

my mother in law would have chipped your tooth the second you raised your voice at her, by backhanding you in the mouth with all her rings on....

you need to Grow up..acting like an a*****e is going to get you nowhere quick.  you shirked off your responsibilities, and you have a major attitude problem, that at the tender age of 16 may seem cool, but when you figure out you flunk out of college early, and are a loser with no job, that you ****** up..then id bet you try to blame your parents too...

you know youre not making it easy on your dad with this bullshit

just one more thing.  if your dad is an a*****e, and your mom is an a*****e, and your step mom is an a*****e, im sorry..then maybe its time for you to grow up, go out, get a job, live on your own, while continuing to go to school and make something of yourself...

well, good luck...

Answer 14

well dhe shouldnt have hit you seeing as she isnt even blood meaning family but what you did was wrong two small children were put in your care