Another question: what's more important....long term?

Question

romance or someone who's responsible?

Someone who buys you gifts--jewelry for no reason--teddys..lingerie flowers and cards/notes?

Someone who you know will always be there and do the right thing by you but is not so romantic?

Again choose one and please include your age in your answer.

(and yeah I know both might be important but please choose one)

Answer 1

It's all opinion.. I would rather, being a guy, have someone who was more responsible than anything. Romance is great, but not at the cost of responsibility.

Answer 2

It depends how irresponsible the romantic one was. Surprise gifts etc. are nice but if they were really irresponsible in bad ways (gambling or drink driving or cheating or big stuff like that) then I wouldn't be impressed overall. Just a little bit more spontaneous or a risk-taker, maybe I would pick that.

But I would probably go with responsible.

Harriet