Answer please://I dont want to be lonely :(?

Question

This summer has been the worst summer ever. Well august that is. After I moved it was like i got disconnected from ym friends. one stopped calling to hang out, one made new friends, and the other well tthey pretty much dont need me, Yesterday i was suppose to hang out with a friend, but she never called like she said she would, but instead ditched me for her best friend. I commented my other friend asking when will we hang out, and she never replied so i deleted the comment. I am so sick of being lonely, and at home doing nothing. I cant make new friends, there are only 8 girls (including me) in the class. And they all have their own beestfriend. but not me. I dont know what to do, gr.8 will be the worst year ever, because i will be used and walkover on like last year, when i thought everything was going good. i dont know what to do. i cant drop them as friends, or i will be a loner. help :(

Answer 1

Sorry to hear that your Friends are not able to spend time with you.  Did you ever wonder if these people were really your friends?  If they were, then there wouldn't be much that could separate you.  I would try to get involved in something you really like.  That way you will meet people that have the same interests that you do.  Also try to be positive.  Right now you already think that the coming year is gonna suk.  Who knows, maybe this will be the best year you ever had!  Be more confident in yourself.  I am sure you are a likable person, friends will come and go.  True friends will always be there no matter what.

Answer 2

believe me, most people feel lonely or left out in some point in life. You are not alone! I know girls tend to be pretty stupid, as in they only stick with their group, but instead of moping around and feelin sorry for urself, try and get to know em better....u could help them out with assignments n stuff...why dont u mix around with ppl from other classes? Don't wait for others to start conversations, start them urself! people will be friendly once they see ur interested!

good luck!

Answer 3

You don't have to have a best friend to hang out. What i usually do is mingle around and talk.You can still talk to your friends but since you don't feel accepted, cause everyone is doing their own stuff, you can always hang out with neighbours or talk with older people in your neighbourhood. YOu can learn stuff from them and you can hang out with your family or relatives. THe students in you class are not your only friends. Even God can be your friend. God can occupy you activities. YOu won't feel lonely. it's also SUMMER. LEarn new stuff like surfing or cooking or do the things you always want to do. If you have a pet, you can always train it for a competition. YOu don't have to just hang out with friends all the time. But after a while you might one to hang out with them but don't worry cause God will help you on your way. DOn't worry. You'll go through. When you grow up, you'll have even more friends like college friends or tuiton friends or maybe new school friends. God will help you through. Everything has a purpose. YOU can also mingle with your friends in your class. Even though they're not your best friends but they are your friends. DOn't feel lonely. God will help you through.

Answer 4

I'm going into 8th grade to, and i don`t have many friends either. this summer, i've been only hanging out with my boyfriend, and lost most of my friends. you need to keep your head up and think positive, you can find new ones during the school years, friends come and goes, only true friends stay by your side. you can find things to do during august by yourself, like read a book, learn more about you, go shopping alone, i do those things when I'm alone, and its pretty fun.

god bless,

quyen.

Answer 5

This may be a signal from the universe showing you that you've given away your sense of self-worth to other people.  By declaring that you "need" other people, your self-worth is now dependent on those other people being there, hence you have no worth without them.  

A better place to be would be to NOT need them, but be happy to have their company.  It may sound like splitting hairs, but if you have a sense of self-worth that is dependent only on YOU, then you will not "need" the the approval or permission of others to make you feel worthy, and no one will have that power over you to make or break your summer. You'll have that power within yourself. Then that will also make hanging out with friends a much more enjoyable experience because it will be a joy and not a need.