Anti-social (dating)? ?

Question

i only like being anti social on weekeds...lol

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On the weekdays, I have a ton of people to talk to, I'm social at school and talkative, I join a bunch of clubs and I'm in a sport(track & Field). Also i'm happy with my looks.

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But on the weekends I feel so different. Alot of my friends suggest I should come over their house and hang out and ect. It feels like such a burden. Like for example yesterday my friend asked me to go to the movies and mall with him today, I really don't want though. I just hate planning things out with my friends...cause it somehow will mess up. (he had to cancel anyway)

also "dating"....I have been dating for 3 month....cause it feels like a burden too.(flirting, going to places, spending money, talking with her)

The things i do most in the weekend is: computer, hang with family, workout (ALOT), eat, watch tv, homework, and sleep.

Is this a bad thing?

Has this happen to people?

Answer 1

You have learned that being the guy that people love to talk to you is wearing you out. The anti-socialness is a way to relax for you. And if your grlfrnd is becoming a burden, then dump her

Answer 2

NAh dude, it just means that your a private person who likes their own company like me.

I get asked to go clubs and stuff but my friends are so disorganised, they never give clear plans, they turn up late or rearrange the times when your on your way or already there.  Plus they all go places thats close to them but far and hard for me to get to.

With girls its different, I would make a big effort.

Thing is, you have to be your own person, like the friends I have at my school, I think they are ok but I have distanced myslf alot because I have changed and during that change, I have noticed things about them that don't appeal to me and need to have my own space.  Like you say its a hassle for me to do what they want, I'd rather do my own thing!

Answer 3

It means your anti-social i suppose.

Answer 4

It aint a bad thing i'm the same but to feel like that with your girlfriend tells me your not into her that much,

Friends to me are boring kinda, but boyfriends are brilliant, when im with someone i wanna go out as much as poss with them.

you need to rethink what you want in life.

Answer 5

Well everyone is different but there's nothing wrong with sticking it out and following through with things, life can't be a burden too! hahaha But you know yourself best so whatever works for you.