Any Advice on This Crazy Lady?

Question

My fiancée’s mom is way 2 sexually open w/ him. When he was a teenager he caught her having s*x w/ his step dad in their room w/ the door wide open N the living room. When he was 7-10 yrs old his mom N stepdad would prance around naked as well (nudist). He wasn’t used to it and didn’t feel really comfortable; they asked him if he wanted 2 take his clothes off 2 but he didn’t.

His dad had full custody of him so he only saw his mom every other weekend back then. As a teenager 2 young adult his mom would talk about having s*x w/ her boyfriends N how she does it anal, like every detail. It makes him feel uncomfortable, but I just don’t understand why he doesn’t tell his mom these things.

My fiancée N I have been living w/ each other for over 3 years now. But lately we’ve been separated against our will due 2 some family issues and, he’s back in w/ his mom till we get our own place. He wants out ASAP.

Now lately she has no boyfriend N she’s divorced her husband. Now she’s treating my fiancée as her husband walking around w/ ONLY a shirt on and demanding the attention for him 2 talk 2 her instead of me over the phone. He doesn’t really care to talk 2 his mom N he’s told his mom that I am number one N so is our son. Yet, she doesn’t seem 2 get it. It’s like she’s competing w/ me over his attention. Each time he’s on the phone w/ me she’s always eavesdropping N she won’t give him his privacy. He’s laid down some boundaries w/ her about eavesdropping N having her wear more than just a shirt, but he doesn’t seem 2 get through 2 her.

Answer 1

sounds like she is set in her ways. he may just have to ride this one out. try to work a lot and not be home much.

Answer 2

Tell him f.u.c.k her when she want and everthing will be ok

Answer 3

first off he has no business dictating what she has to do in her own home. any time he doesn't like it he knows where the door is and he should not let it hit him in the *** on his way out of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

in short, if he doesn't like it... get the he!! out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

Your fianc'e is HER child living under HER roof.She can make ANY rules she wants and until he is man enough to get out on his own and support you marry you and raise his son, then he is a little boy living with mommy.

Why isn't he living with is dad?

There are homeless shelters.I would prefer THAT to living with his psycho  pervert mom.

Tell him you have lost respect for him and until he gets his c**p together you want nothing welse to do with him.

In the meantime get yourself a job and aplace of your own.

Answer 5

You know the first answer by kris A has a big point ! Its her house and she has the right to do whatever she wants in it ! Its kinda ****** up that your man is telling all ur moms secrets to you no matter how close you are . Who knows what he tells other ppl about you ! So get that in check . Some parents are different with there sexuallity then others my mom was always open to tell me things when I was young and you know what that helped me a lot . So try not to be prude what happens in that womans house is her business and not a concern of your own ! Your man needs to man up and tell ur mom it makes him uncomfortable maybe buy her a robe ! He needs to not come to his fiance whinning about  things when you are busy with your child ! Dear your hearing everything secondhand which makes a person kinda paranoid about what exacly is going on in that house and your fiances whinnying is making ur mom in law seem like some incest creepy parent when probably in fact she is in her house and does what she wants there ! There are certain boundaries though that if u feel has gone to far u can't ignore ! So next time ur man starts about how bad he has it tell him **** you stop whinning u got more things to deal with then his moms saggy b***s ! Bottom line if you go tell her what she should or should not do in her house that's major disrespect so get him to ask her to plzzz wear some clothes . If that doesn't work then tell him to make observations on her body like wow mom ur gained weight or hey mom I found this joke and I thought of you what did  the saggy boob say to the other saggy boob ,,you better perk up or we will look like nuts ! Lol a lil unheathy body image would do her some good ! So best of luck handle this properly k . Good luck !

Izzie