Any Advice???????????????????

Question

My older brother and I were never too close ( he is 25 and I am 14), he doesnt live with us anymore, but the last couple of weeks he suddenly started phoning very often and just talking about random things, which is REALLY strange since he is always busy. Today, he called, asked if he could come over ( again) and then he brought me a bowl of ice-cream. I immediatly asked what's up, and told him to get straight to the point, since I thought he wanted me to do something for him. He just gave me a long stare and then told me to get straight to the ice-cream. Okay, I know you might think why this is strange, but I've known him all my life, I never thought that he would ever spend any of his money on me or mom and dad. Also, once he was listening to my ipod that he kindly borrowed without permission, he said something about not wanting to be in love. I said that once you get in its the trap, you don't usually get out unchanged. Then he asked what do I know about love at my age. Well, anyway, something is going on, because he was never crazy for girls, altho it was vice versa. I don't mind him being nice, but i need to find out what's on his mind. Whenever I ask him if he likes some1, he just changes the topic. Sometimes he looks in the mirror and then asks me if I think that he is hot. Now, that's when I change the topic. ( lol)

Is there anything that I need to do, since I don't think that he'll be nice without a reason. Please tell me what you think, and if you think that I should be involved at all.

Answer 1

he want you  

Answer 2

by whta you are saying, your brother is worried about the fact that he loves this girl, and she might not.. he needs support and finally by liking someone, he started to understand that he must treat his sister like a person.. its hard to explain but all i  can say is he understands now. he also prob. wants to know how young ladies act/react and by asking about your lovelife is just proving to him how to deal with his own. he also wants to impress her, so try to give him edvise, but dont say hes ugly.

Answer 3

i think that he's desperately trying to connect with someone because there is something on his mind. So far he's getting nowhere with the people closest to him because they can't be objective but you can

i think the key is to be patient - he will tell you in his own time.

I'm also quite frightened at how wise you are - if you're this articulate and wise at 14...

have you considered world domination?

Answer 4

I think its perfectly normal, he being away for a while , he is making up for the time he wasn't with u. So b normal with , as a sister. u can always flatter him , and say he is good-looking, next time he asks u. Have a healthy relationship.