Any Koreans there to give me advise??? PLEASE HELP ME!!! I DON'T HAVE A FUTURE WITH MY KOREAN HUSBAND....?

Question

He is a new zealand citizen but he was a natural born Korean.we are presently living together for 8 months now here in South Korea.after our marriage,he would like me to write a letter with my sign on it that "I am not interested about his money". I did but when I said that I have to get a job if that is the case, he told me that I don't need to and disregarded the letter and put in the trash.Just recently, I found out that he is still not finish dividng his property with his ex wife and two daughter who are in New Zealand.It says there in the document that they have to keep their property as it is,unless one of the couple would like to sell the property,must need to consult or inform his ex wife.I knew that I have no right for their property and up to present.though we are together,if he died by accident then,I have to go back to my country as it is without any

Answer 1

My suggestion for you is that you should go get yourself a job, because you never know what will happen especially now that he has big "baggage" on his shoulder. I'm glad you've found out about his past. If anything happen, god knows what will happen, at least you have some $$  to support  yourself.

Good Luck!

Answer 2

You seem to be working yourself into a frenzy about what could happen.  You married a man with "baggage."  Get a job and apply for citizenship where you are right now.  Move in a forward direction to alleviate your fears and never depend on anyone to do what you should do yourself.  You will be a lot safer and happier.