Any advice?? I have a friend that i thought I felt nothing for, but now that he has a girlfriend ..?

Question

its really bothering me and everyone says i'm jealous and should just move on...

Does it seem like Im jealous? Should I let him know how i feel?

Answer 1

Let him know. It will only make u better. Tell him "as long as ur happy im happy" and maybe he will understand that u like him but u want him to be happy still!

Answer 2

I believe the best advice that I can give you is to be honest to yourself. Do you really like him or is it because he is the friend that has always been there for you in times of need? If you do really like him then tell him the truth tell him that you have to tell him something, but no matter what happens you two will still remain friends. Then that way if the feeling is not mutual then this person can still remain in your life as a friend... You are not going to be happy until you know, and you will only end up being rude and hating a girl that has nothing to do with the situation and who needs more enemies? Anyways just be honest it is never good for you to keep these feelings inside it only makes you bitter and discouraged...Just be honest and tell him your feelings you will be glad you did regardless of the outcome.....Good Luck!!!!!

Answer 3

Jealous?? not positive it's the right word... but if you have feelings for him it makes sense your having problems acceptng that he has a girlfriend.  

It happened to me when I was in highschool .. he was my best friend.. i thought it was all we were, but my feeling for him grew.  I didn't do anything to break him and his girlfriend up.. but they started having problems.. fighting all the time etc.. we still hung out all the time & so they were breaking up and I just up and kissed him.  He ended up being my first everything... dated him all of Junior and 1/2 of senior year.  Broke my heart etc.... but I would never change it... beacuse he was my best friend.. I trusted him.. my first time was nice beacuse he was very good to me.  

You can tell him how you feel, but be careful.. it can cause major problems... are you ready for that?