Any advice about a friend...?

Question

hey everyone...

i'd like your point of view on a few things.

i have a friend who really confuses me.

somedays we get along so so well, and we have the greatest time together.

but other days, like 1/3 of the time, he goes weird. he just throws me off and ignores me, or like launches huge rants at me for no reason. then the next day, he behaves like it never happened, and even though it hurts me i do the same. i think i'm a really forgiving person, so i just put it behind me and keep giving him his 27 chances.

kind of ages ago, he said he knows he acts really mean to people for no reason sometimes, and that he'd like to quit doing that.

but it doesn't seem like that resolution's working out too well, and i don't want to say anything because of he'll probably get mad again. at the same time i want to tell him to stop, because when he's upset i'm upset too.

i really hate how he acts out at me; it's so childish and i think we both realize that at 15 you don't do that.

also, we're just a little more than friends, so that just adds to the awkward sitch.

i don't know what to do.

please help me out? what would you do if you were me?

thanks so much.

Answer 1

kick em in the balls.

Answer 2

maybe hes bipolar and cant help it. they have medicine for that.

Answer 3

well i think you should tell him, but maybe navigate away from telling him directly. maybe text, e-mail, im, or chat with him and sorta say "i think that if we are going to have a good relationship, we should maybe both work on our anger issues, " and see what he says about that...