Any advice on this situation?

Question

I keep taking back men who break up with me.. Ive also taken back men who claim to just want to be friends but then decide they are interested in me after all. I tend to forget the pain that they caused before because I'm not feeling that pain anymore.

Anyone else ever been through this? Anyone have any advice?

Answer 1

You need to look at your past- way back to childhood and evaluate what has happened to you.  The abuse that happened to you as a child needs to faced.  Once you understand why you keep repeating these bad habits then you will be able to change this.

Answer 2

I suggest that you can choose to give anyone a second chance.  They may have learned their lesson or experienced an epiphany.  They may have decided that they want to change and need you to help them make that change.

However, if it doesn't work out that second time, you need to cut those ties.