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Any advice please, How do i get some confidence back and stop being so pesimistic?

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I have been really hurt in the past and have never had a girlfriend tho ive had lots of friends who are girls. Apparently i give good hugs, but i want love and s*x an someone to have fun with. I was really upset when i was 21 and my best friend of 2 years(who was a mates girlfriend) said we were soulmates and meant to be, we 'almost' slept together,, she was my fist sexual eperience, i was in love and i was totally open and honest with her and she dumped me by text and ignored my calls. I was devastated and cried alot. i have always been rejected, im overweight and know that has alot to do with it. When i was a child i used to daydream about my crushes and having a love when i was older. Im 28 now and when i go out all the young couples seem way younger than me. How will i ever be able to be good at s*x and relationship stuff when ive never had a girlfriend. Im a sensitive guy and i cant wait much longer. People say you should get a practice girlfriend, but how bad would that make me feel!! I just dont know how to have a fun relationship,it seems soo serious and i dont know if i will love like my first love ever again. It ended badly and i dont know if i could face that again. plz help?

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  1. Don't cling to your past, although that is easier said than done. Be proud of who you are and don't get emotionally tied to people until you are confident you can trust them, etc (that might reduce the amount of times you are hurt).

    I'm guessing that the s*x and relationship stuff will come naturally (wouldn't know, considering I'm a teenager). You're probably feeling more agitated because you might, subconsciously, think that no one likes you...but someone out there will love you as much as you love them.

    Just stay optimistic and hopefully things will work out.

    G.W.K

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