Any advice will be really very appreciated .

Question

So , yeah . After all , I still love this guy really very much . He broke up with me 2 months ago and we still have feelings on each other . We almost got back together but we did not . Later on , I found out he flirting with another girl , I got so pissed off and I angry on him from that day we stop contacting each other . On another day , he came and talk to me . Suddenly , I got the impulsion of patched back with him , so I asked him to came back but he refused to . He ask me to move on and perhaps there's lots of good guys out there .

I need him so desperately and his the one who took my virginity . Even though , his not coming back I dont mind . But I care for my virginity , Im so afraid that , what if my future husband would mind for it ? and isnt worth for me to go back ?

anyone please help ?

Answer 1

Sounds like you was USED!  As you get older, you will learn that a man likes a chase, when he can make the catch, there is no more chasing. . . Do you think that your man that you eventually marry will be a virgin?   Do you really think that you will NOT give it up again until marriage?   Time to move on.

Always use protection.  You dont need no stds nor pregnant.

Answer 2

A person should love you for you. Not your virginity (or lack of).

He hurt you. I understand that. You need to move on. I have a feeling he will come around again since he did it twice before. You need to realize that even though you may have feelings for him, he isn't taking you very seriously.

You can do much better without him :)

Answer 3

Leave him be.. Find someone else... The person you can lose your virginity to is not always going to be the guy you marry... Just go out and have fun and meet other guys.. There are good ones out there.  

Also once you do have a husband if he loves you he won't mind about your virginity  

Answer 4

Just because he is the one who took your virginity is not a reason to stay with him, whoever falls in love with you in the future the past will not mean anything, just be yourself and do not offer explanations or excuses for anything that happened before him.

Answer 5

you r kidding right?