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i ask a lot of questions about my sister, and i always get the same answer i ask questions about her temper, its gotten to the point that when shes mad it scares me, and im almost five years older than her, she lashed out last night because "shes the only one who gets yelled at" it wasnt physical last night and she wasnt mad at me she was mad at my mom, she knows she cant hurt our mom she only tryed to hit her once that i know of, but it wasnt like a slap it was more of a push her away thing.

my sister likes to get physical with me, i'm pretty scrawny, tall and skinny and my only muscles that i have are in my legs, she gets mad about the stupidest things, i was making sure she was getting the dishes done about a week ago, she told me to quit yelling at her and then she got physical (there was a little more to it, but i dont feel like wrting it, no i didnt hit ner firt, and i dont hit her i restrain her, the getting physical thing doesnt happen everytime she gets mad it only happens like 1/3 of the time, if that , but im still scared of her when shes mad, and the one thing that gets me is that when shes trying to hurt me, i know i look scared, she SMILES AND GIGGLES about it!!!!!

(i forgot to mention earlier that when the bad stuff happens my parents arent home, i babysit her during the day)

im tired of fighting, i have scratches and a bruise from her!!! i tell my parents and she gets punished but so do i!!!! im sick of this tell me something that i can do to make this stop, now i always get told the ame thing when i ask about my sister, and that is that she needs counseling, ive told my mom and she just kinda brushes it off, how can i show her that im serious when i say that my sister needs anger management classes, and anything else

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  1. just  tell  here  ok   i  get  better


  2. Well when I was younger I used to terriorize my two older brothers when they had to watch me while our parents were at work but not like the way your sister is doing you I was just do things like trash both of there rooms and mess the house up B4 my parents got home so they would get in trouble because I was too little to clean i remember some of the stuff but not all of it and they told me every time they would tell my parents on me they would brush it off like I know she could not have done this thinking I was a "little angel" so one day my brothers got the camcorder and hit it in one of my their rooms and sure enough THET GOT ME all on tape and they showed it to my parents and I got a whipping and they said I never done it after that but my advise would be to get it on tape and show your parents and they will have no choice but to resolve the problem SORRY THIS IS HAPPENING TO YOU!!!  

  3. Have a sit down with your sister and tell her how you feel about her behavior.  Tell her that you " Love her with all of your heart, and that it scares me to see you act like this."  Just try being calm with her, and if that doesn't work, just stand your ground and don't let her push you around.  Giving in to her will just let her  know that she is in control,  or just find out her weakness... ex: chocolate, music... etc... and say if she is nice for however long you might take her out with you and some friends... besides.. how old is she?

  4. tell your school counselor(s)!

  5. a nice big question!

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