Any advise on how to spice up my marriage? Been married for 3 years. ?

Question

i have been married for 3 years now and really think my husband is getting bored with our relationship. he works 6 days a week and sometimes 14 hours a day. so i know that he is tired. also, his 17 year old son has been living with us for 4 months now, and my husband and i are never alone, except when we go to bed. i am tired also, because i have started going through menopause. and my hubby is 51 years old. he is always saying he is tired. and rarely do we have s*x anymore. any ideas?

Answer 1

First is communication. Realizing that something is missing is the key to the problem and the road to a solution. So talking about it, accepting the fact that you´re both probably bored feeling there´s no spice in the relationship, will make you both anxious to find a solution. I´m sure you do want s*x with your husband and bring back the good times with him, the laughs and the sparks, and I´m sure he wants that too. As soon as you both accept this to one another, you´re ready to begin. First, feeling tired is normal but you need to make an effort to be intimate with each other once a week. So choose a day which will work for both of you, let´s say, Saturday, and compromise this night will be yours. For the rest of the week you can do whatever you want, but Saturday will be exclusive for the both of you. Knowing this you´ll prepare mentally and phisically to be intimate. Once you achieve this you´ll feel connected again and hopefully the start to want to be intimate more often, with one more day it´ll do. Being able to communicate and act on it will help you tremendously. After this you can plan a weekend away, or set another day of the week for the movies and dinner. Just remember, you need to talk to each other honestly about your feelings and once you do that, you take it from there.

Answer 2

bring your hottest friend over and let the old man go at it while you watch. This will keep it going for another two years at the least.

Answer 3

6 days a week, 14 hours a day....hmmmm, car salesman eh? yep, nine out of 10 people in the car business are divorcees, not a clue as to what is really important.