Any good girls out there? Where are you guys?!?!?

Question

Seriously, is there any girls who DO NOT smoke and DO NOT drink and think about what they wanna do with they're life. Most of the girls around here are turn offs because all they wanna do is party, drink and get high and s***w around with other guys. Anyone here agree with me? and also isn't s*x before marriage a SIN? seriously, where are the loving, smart, well educated girls at? I know they exist and I know they are in the most un-expected places. It's so pain full when a girl tells me "hey I'm going to drink my butt off" or "oh my I'md im so high right now" and " i just had s*x last night". It's so upsetting. Opinions are all open.

Answer 1

i'm the only one of my friends that doesn't smoke or drink and i always get made fun of for it.  

Answer 2

well....i dont do any of that. maybe, just cause im young. but i will never smoke. and yeah, s*x before marriage is a sin. sorry u havent found your good girl yet

Answer 3

well I dnt smoke r drink maybe ur tlking to the wrong girls u should try tlking to shy girls  r hanging out at different places  u wont find a good girl at a club

Answer 4

To be honest, I find this offensive. I smoke, and I seriously doubt I'm going to wait before marriage to have s*x, but that doesn't mean I'm some hardcore badass.

I can do these things and still be goal-oriented, intelligent, and an all around good person. I'm not religious, but that doesn't make me a s***w up. I'm just as loving as the girls you have in mind.

Personally, I think you should be more open minded. People are different, isn't that what everyone keeps saying we should be?

Sorry.

Answer 5

Yes i don't drink nor smoke . Probably because all my cousins and uncles does both . I hate being around those type of people . But people seems to call me weird because I'm a JESUS  freak ! I'm totally for s*x before marriage . But it seems like now days all guys wanna have s*x right then and there . Us as americans are in a state of emergency its alot of things we can change . Most smart and independent  women are hiding because all the men are choosing to play hide go seek with our hearts . Now days all it seems like is guys judge you by your face and your waist then he want to take you to his place. I'm like the fourth person out of my graduating class that haven't had s*x or a baby . Well here's another African american girl ( me ) that's doing here thing . And that is school work and not giving my body to the world. Our body is a temple not a play ground  

Answer 6

yeah!

There actually are a lot of girls that are not into the whole partying scene. You just have to look a bit harder, they are definitely around. The shy quieter chicks blend in better and don't like so much attention. They're cute and don't do those kind of things.

G'luck!  

Answer 7

WOW i totally agree with you!

Smoking and drinking for me is a total turn off!

Well i dont smoke, drink + i certainly dont get high and i have alot of aspiration with what i want to do with my life =]

You dont need alcahol and drugs to be happy and have fun all you need is fun people to be around =]

Most people belive that s*x is a huge thing but to be honest i think the only good thing about s*x is reproduction =] im not religious but i agree that s*x should be left until after marriage =]

Its a reall shame were from diffirent parts of the world. You seem like my ideal guy =]

Answer 8

well i dont drink or smoke but most of them are taken  your probably not noticing them because I'm sure there is alot of girls out there you probably looking in the wrong places like in the clubs and stuff like that go to the gym and movies and stuff like that well anyways hope you find someone  

Answer 9

It's hard to find some  but if you want to find some one like that you should look at churchs.

Answer 10

I'm a "loving, smart, well educated girl" but I drink and I enjoy masturbation and s*x. Just because people drink, get high, have s*x doesn't mean they're not good people. And there's NOTHING wrong with s*x before marriage.. but then again I don't believe in Sins or God so... my opinion may be different to yours.

Good luck finding a chick with the same prudeness as yourself.  

Answer 11

um, where are the guys like that? Not everyone believes that premarital s*x is a sin you know, and that doesn't make you uneducated. There are a lot of s***s out there though, but it's hard to find a good guy too.