Any help?? PLEASE ASAP and pleas eno comments on how pathetic i am, i already know,?

Question

I'm 13 and..idk my new house just feels weird we've been living here for about a year, and i always feel sudden feelings terror when I'm here alone, what really freaked me out is one day i was walking with my best friends who had just came from the bathroom in my house and she said "idk is just when I'm up there alone and coming from the bathroom i just get this sudden feeling to run away from someone bad" and what freaked me out is that's EXACTLY how i feel and i never told ANYONE because i thought i was being stupid so naturally i dont want to be here ALONE when i wake up or go to be, my brother just went to college and my mom and her bf have early morning jobs, which means waking up alone, and spending the day ALONE, and i already never liked being alone and I'm...scared, and i TRIED to tell my mom PART of it i told her i was scared and i wanted to bring in one of our 3 big dogs from out side or to get like a tiny dog to be there when i wake up in the mornings for me and she wont let me any help??? i even offered to pay for the new dog and EVERYTHING the dog needs, food, water, toys, treats EVERYTHING because i have a job, that pays enough that this would be possible...HELP PLEASE

Answer 1

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i no wats its like to feel scared when your home alone, i feel your pain!!!

if i was a mom i would let my kid getta dog if they pay for it all by them selves! lol itd be yes in a heartbeat lol.

i dont think your pathetic AT ALL! i thiink alot of ppl have this fear 2!

would keeping the TV on all night help so when you wake up you can just get sucked in to watching TV lol...that helps me when i get scared. you could also hava friend over ALOT!!! lol

well good luck and hope i helped!!!!!!!! =D

Answer 2

Your really not that pathetic.  Don't worry.  Your just afraid right now because it's a new unknown place.  And don't worry there is know one in your house. Believe me.  Like think about that rationally.  Where would they sleep and eat and go to the bathroom with out you noticing? But i know this sounds weird, but i've watched like ghost hunters and stuff, and people thinks ghosts are in there house and stuff cause it feels like have eyes on them.  But a lot of times and i can't remember exactly what it was, but they would test something and stuff like electrical stuff and pipes and things like that give out something that gives that feeling to people.  Wow, sorry bad explanation, i haven't watched it in a really long time.  i know that won't keep you from being afraid though.  If you have a i pod or somthing like that to distract yourself when your scared.  Or when you getout you could go sit outside wiht the dogs.  have the TV on when it gets dark, and have friends over as much as posible.  and about your friend, she could of just been scared cause you put the idea in her head by somthing you said.  

Answer 3

if ur worried, why not get a priest or someone in to bless the hous, ur supposed to do it when you move anyways, and mayb seek counselling to sort your fears.k

hope i helped!!

Answer 4

Having an animal inside is a great idea they see things you can't and I don't know if you're a believer but I would get a priest or pastor to bless the house when no one else is home due to opposition of whom just may be the problem?  Also get A bible and have that blessed and leave it open on your night stand before going to bed.  It wouldn't hurt to open it and read Psalms 91 and 23 everytime you get that feeling.

Love and a prayer

WonderWoman

Answer 5

There's nothing we can do personally. We can't reach out from your computer monitor and make the boogie-man in your house go away. And if your mom doesn't want you bringing in a dog, then there's no convincing her, really. Plus, if his only purpose is to keep you company in the morning, do you REALLY think you'd have the energy or desire to take care of him when you're not alone? When your mom and her bf get home, you won't need the dog around.

And a therapist is wayy too expensive for this problem. I understand you're scared and worried about whatever it is about the house that makes you feel that way, but what you should really consider doing is talking to your mom and her bf about it sometime. Honestly, just have a laugh about it. Soon you'll go from being scared, to just getting the creeps..After a while, you'll sit back and laugh about how you were scared of what was absolutely nothing,

Answer 6

I think you should see a therapist that can talk this through with you and make you feel more comfortable in your own home.

Good Luck.

Answer 7

maybe you should ask her for a different pet like a hamster or bunny or cat

or just bring in one of the dogs while shes not home and put it back outside before she comes home

Answer 8

Sometimes parents can't approve things like bringing a dog into the house because of potential damage to the house or stress to the already stressed out parent.  Congratulations on your brother going to college, there must be some exciting things happening with him, and the good news is, you will be able to move out shortly and get a roommate of your own.

Unfortunately some parents have to work early and it sucks!  It sucks for them too, but they have to pay the bills.  I think your friend is just listening to your stories and the more you talk about being afraid, the more scared you are.  So let's think about what you can do....

#1 - Put on the television or radio if you are in the house, and stay on the phone with friends.  Even in the morning, talk about what you are wearing to school that day or make up or when you'll hang out next.

#2 - Know for a fact that most criminals report that they never mess with homes with dogs at them because it causes extra possible problems.  The fact that you have dogs OUTSIDE is probably better than inside.

#3 - Sign up for after school activities so you can stay around people longer.  Way to go on the job!!  That is very positive and soaks up some time.  

#4 - Start making plans for what your new apartment will look like when you move out.  It might seem like a really long time away, but it really isn't.  Figure out costs, furniture items you need to get, which college dorm you want to live in, etc.  Think about what types of colors you want to have in the room, your bedspread, etc.

#5 - How about sprucing up your room...While your mom might or might not approve repainting the walls, she might be very comfortable with getting a new bed spread, pillows, etc.  You can also buy some house alarms that don't require a monthly bill.  They cost anywhere from $60-$200.00 (If it was me, I'd figure things were pretty safe and waste that money on new finger nail polish, shoes or out to the movies with my friend.)

IDK about the pathetic part, you sound pretty cool to me.  Just have a question on safety.  There's nothing wrong with that.  I wouldn't worry to much about your friends comments, and it's okay to feel a little worried.  I think the fact that you have big dogs makes the house pretty safe.

By the way, most parents don't know how you feel unless you tell them, and even when you do tell them, at first they think it's nothing or you're exaggerating, or you're playing.  You might have to tell your mom 4 or 5 times before she gets that you need something to make you feel more secure.

Even if she won't let you get another dog, I think you can make some new plans with some of your job money, and end up ok.  You sound like a really good kid!!

Answer 9

tell her your noy old enough to be home alone and if you cant have adog you will call d f s  

Answer 10

I think your answer if simple.  So simple that you might not listen.  

You need more attention from your mom or family.  Is dad anywhere arround?   You need tos talk to someone so you can have a life, like go places and do things and get some attention.   We all need that.

I am sorry your mom has a live in boyfriend because that may make you feel like your #2.   Hope you have some family that you can turn to, like grandparents, uncles, aunts or your dad.

Good Luck!!  Hang in there, 18 is not far away.

Answer 11

What do you need help with exactly?

state of mind?

the dog issue?

your mom?

waking up alone?

Answer 12

Your house sounds HAUNTED! YOU need to tell your mom that u all need to move immediately. I would,nt stay in there by myself.

Answer 13

i may sound silly too to all the others but ive always had that feeling being alone in my grandmas basement. it used to be the family room/living room whatever until this exactthing happened after my 6 year old birthday party and i have 2 people to prove it with me. my mom was down there and my cousin was down there with me. whe we were al sleeping after i had my birhtday part that day in the middle of the night my cousin and i woke up hearing a screeching noise onthe cemnt floor. we both woke up at te same time and both peaked over the couch we were sleeping on (sectional) and when we looked over we both screamed and started running up stairs to a playschool plastic picnic table moving by it self aginst the floor. and when me and britany loked over it lifted up and slammed violently aginst the wall so we ran upstair (my mom woke up my the slam and ran with us) and the door slammed shut on us and since then its never been te family room again. now we do have to godo laundry down there and i hate it. so i did research how to get a spirit to leave you alone all you have to do is say " spirit i know your there and i know you want to scare me but you dont scare me and i am superior to you. you need to go to your new home and leave me alone." i do that every time i feel a presence and it goes away. and now i lagh caz it still scares my mom and im  used to it so its really funny watching my mom jump or run or scream. because my mom allows it to scare he. it doesnt scare me anymore because i know that all it want to do is play (scare me) and because it doesnt get a reaction it doesnt find me fun or entertaining so it picks on the next person.