Any men out there who got snipped in your past & didn't mention it to a SO

Question

I've thought it might be fun if I got a vasectomy & then ended up in a relationship with a woman who wanted to get pregnant but didn't know about it. We would have lots of fun "trying". Any men actually been in that situation? Did the truth come out? What happened when the truth came out?

Answer 1

How could that be fun. that is a sick and disgusting thing to joke about. I knew a woman that happened to - and it almost drove her to suicide that she couldn't produce a baby and have a real family with the man she loved so much while he was lying.

Answer 2

a vasectomy is reversable, tell your partner and stop deceiving her. unlike men, women become less fertile the older they get, if she wants a baby what you are doing is just evil. when the truth comes out im sure you know what will happen, any woman whos not mad at this is stupid.

Answer 3

Not Trying to be mean but thats dumb why would want to get a vasectomy when you might want to be a father later on down the road and you dont have the balls to tell the girl you love that you cant produce kids!

Answer 4

That's awful, you need to be truthful, and let that gal get moving on to an honest man who wants a family.   Your kinda usin her for your own pleasure.  terrible.

Answer 5

yep I did, when I was in college I never told any of my girlfriends, I was even "oops" once by a girl...she was positive it was me until I showed her the lab results...great fun!

Answer 6

Congratulations on taking responsibility for yourself.  I congratulate you. Who cares about the chick, you can always go to a bank, or adopt.

Answer 7

That is stupid.  

Answer 8

Yes, I did.  But she didn't tell me she was trying to get prego.  Shortly after we split she tried to sue me for child support.  Needless to say, she gave up after I showed her my s***n analysis (and it never went to court).  

I get the analysis done every five years.

That is why I had a vasectomy when I was 21, and never had any children.  I am very happy with my choice!

Answer 9

That's bad. I know guys who can't even have kids, and it's not even on purpose.

I don't recomend it, because your woman would leave you.  I would leave a guy I'm trying to have kids with who got a vesectomy and never told me.

That's messed up.

Answer 10

  Grow up.

Answer 11

nope! my vasectomy is scheduled for 9/15/08

sounds like fun :-) lol

no but seriously I wouldn't mislead any women into thinking they are going to get pregnant..

where the fun comes in is when they try to pin a pregnancy on you tho...HA!

Answer 12

what means snipped, to be circumcised? that's creepy dude.

what's an SO, Surgical Operator?

is it fun to have vasectomy? I think it will take the pleasure away.

Answer 13

lmfao that's great

Answer 14

even though i am not a man that is just mean...lol

Answer 15

ur a ****** go to h**l  

Answer 16

that is horrible!!! why would you lie to a woman like that?? i hope you get one and something goes wrong and u can never "use" it again! haha jk..but seriously-thats messed up

Answer 17

i got sniped once, dunno 'bout snipped.

'Twas a scout tactical rifle, methinks.

Answer 18

OH my gosh.  That is an a*hole thing to do.  My aunt thought for nearly 17 years that she couldn't have children because that's what her husband kept saying.  As it turns out, he was the one who couldn't and he lied to her the whole time.  She didn't even find out until after she remarried years later and got pregnant.

So I consider what you did to be in that category, which is labeled A for a*hole.  If you don't want to have kids -that's fine and that's your business.  It's probably better you don't procreate.  But misleading someone else (or even having the IDEA) to do so when they want children is horrible.  Imagine what could happen!  She may start taking fertility drugs, which cost thousands!  She could be depressed and angst ridden because she felt she was inadequate.  

Get with someone who doesn't want to have kids.  Don't torture and deceive someone with the thought or hope of being a mom when you can't give them that.  

Answer 19

I work in a clinic where vasectomies are performed.  The questions, "Will there be a scar?", and "Can anyone tell I had it?" come up a lot.

I think what you are asking is common.  Knowing what some women do to men to "trap" them I support the idea.

Answer 20

uh... and what happens when you get to the point where you do want to be a father?

and just to let you know, for most couples who are trying, but are not succeeding, the s*x becomes work on demand and not 'fun'.