Any one a single mother? x?

Question

What to do when just found out preggers ?:)?

Hi i've just found out i'm pregnant from a one night stand i've told my mom and she's ok and i reali want to keep the baby but the father is getting on my nerves he's too clingy and keeps txtin me god d**n hour under the sun ppl r driving me nuts ... cud i just ignore the father and not b a *****? xx

18 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.

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11 minutes ago

NOT my father lol the baby's.. i just feel to uneasy around him and i everytime he texts me i cry and i just feel suicidal, i don't want him involved!(((I KNOW THATS SELFISH!!)) But it's the truth! xx

Answer 1

I would tell the father how you feel. don't lead him down a path to make him think that you want him there. right now you don't feel like you need him in your life and everything else. If he makes you feel upset like that tell him that you will call him if anything happens but right now you need to have time to yourself about this. you have alot of feelings that are going on right now and you don't feel right. but you have to tell him things. I hope that i helped.

Answer 2

Did you happen to think about any of the consequences of becoming pregnant before you go this way? Nope, didn't think so.

Stop being so damned dramatic and start acting like you are fixing to become a mother. And yes, the father of this child has just as many rights to the child as you do.

Answer 3

You are not ready to have this baby. The baby deserves for his/her father to be in their life. Just because you don't like the dad, it is not a decision for you to make for the baby. Most guys don't do anything. As it sounds, you will be receiving state aid, so every one else will be taking care of your baby. Birth control is readily available, there is no reason for this to have happened. Your lucky you didn't get a std! If you feel suicidal now, what is going to happen when the baby is getting on your nerves. You need to give the baby up for adoption and let him/her have a real family, that is emotionally stable.