Any one else getting frustrated ttc?

Question

We have only been trying for 4 months now but it is sooo frustrating to keep having my af show up. I have been baby dancing exactly 2 days before my ovulation dates and every other day until 3 days after, just to keep getting negative pregnancy test. Maybe all of us ttc are trying to hard. It makes me so mad to see all of these young girls on here getting pregnant and not wanting the baby and here we are doing all that we can and it just won't happen for us. It just doesn't seem to make sense. I am due to have my af on aug. 15th and praying she doesn't show up. So I am giving some baby dust to all of you ttc and hoping it will happen for us soon. Good luck everyone!!!

Answer 1

i too hav been trying to conceive and each month it gets more and more frustrating. it's like being on an emotional roller coaster, a wheel. my cycle comes on, i get sad for the first couple days; my cycle goes off and im back online lookin up stuff and makin sure i hav my ov dates down to a science. then i bd, put my plan into action. then the wait begins and i diagnose and analyze each and every twinge and pull, then.... i obsess even more over symptoms. i grow more and more hopeful and then one morning, the morning af is due, i go to the bathroom and WIPE and see a LIGHT, yet definitely there RED streak. I scream, i stomp my feet and feel very sad and defeated. I wonder what went wrong, i look again at the calender, then i wonder what i could do "differently" the next month. i mc in may after 11 cycles and so far i have had 5 cycles... i thought about it the other day and realized i was doin this exact same thing this time last year. It's unbelieveabble how long i have been PLANNING A PREGNANCY! frankly, im sick of it. Oh well, didnt mean to vent this long. Still believing and sending up prayers to the LORD. thanks for listening...